JOSHUA "JJ" VALLOW, TYLEE RYAN, TAMMY DAYBELL, & CHARLES VALLOW: State of Idaho/Arizona vs. Lori & Chad Daybell *GUILTY*

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Police seem to be no closer to finding 7-year-old Joshua “JJ” Vallow and 17-year-old Tylee Ryan than they were when this story began months ago.

Since that time, the story has gained international attention as it’s taken twists and turns involving a purported cult, dead spouses, delusions of divinity and preparing for the end of the world. Despite all the angles, and the ever-growing number of people related to the case, the facts remain essentially the same as when it was first announced.

The two children remain missing and the parents, Lori (Vallow) Daybell, and her new husband, Chad Daybell, refuse to disclose their whereabouts to police. Both have been named persons of interest in the disappearance of the children. Law enforcement is also investigating the deaths of the Daybells’ previous respective spouses, Charles Vallow and Tammy Daybell, though neither Chad nor Lori have been named suspects in those cases.

Written timeline of events
  • April 3, 2018 - Tylee Ryan's father, Joseph Ryan, dies. Death ruled heart attack.
  • December 2018 - Chad Daybell & Lori Vallow make first appearance on Preparing a People podcast.
  • February 2019 - Charles Vallow files for divorce from Lori, claiming she viewed herself as a god preparing for the second coming, and she would kill him if he got in her way.
  • February - April 2019 - Lori disappears for nearly two months, leaving her children with others.
  • June 2019 - Lori's niece demands a divorce from her husband, who says she shares similar beliefs to her aunt.
  • July 11, 2019 - Charles Vallow shot and killed by Lori's brother Alex Cox. Shooting initially ruled self-defense.
  • August 2019 - Lori moves to Rexburg, Idaho with kids
  • September 3, 2019 - Joshua "JJ" Vallow enrolled in school
  • September 23, 2019 - JJ last attended school
  • September 24, 2019 - Lori unenrolls JJ from school, saying she would be homeschooling him.
  • September 2019 - Tylee also seen in September, but it's unclear when and where (she had graduated early)
  • October 2, 2019 - Lori's niece's ex-husband was shot at, missing his head by inches. Shooter was driving a vehicle registered to Charles Vallow.
  • October 9, 2019 - Tammy Daybell, Chad's wife, called 911 and said a masked man shot at her with a paintball gun.
  • October 19, 2019 - Tammy Daybell dies, death is ruled natural
  • October 25, 2019 - Tylee, or someone using her phone, texts a friend
  • Late October / Early November 2019 - Chad Daybell & Lori Vallow get married
  • November 26, 2019 - Welfare check requested for JJ at the request of extended family - police are told he is in Arizona with family, but he is not
  • November 27, 2019 - Police return to serve a search warrant, finding the Daybell's gone
  • December 12, 2019 - Lori's brother, who had shot her ex-husband, dies mysteriously in Arizona
  • December 20, 2019 - Search for JJ and Tylee goes public
  • December 30, 2019 - LE says Lori knows where her children are but will not cooperate
  • January 25, 2020 - Chad & Lori are located in Hawaii, served with a notice that she must produce the children within 5 days
  • January 30, 2020 - Lori fails to produce JJ and Tylee

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Bringing this forward.

From the article -

Adam testified he had tried to talk to his family and Daybell about his concerns, but he was cut off. Vallow and Adam started trying to develop a plan for an intervention and possibly record Daybell. The hope, he said, was to take the recording to the leader within their religious community.

“I personally feel she’s too far gone,” said Vallow in a text to Adam. “It’s going to take us going to Holmes, or she won’t ever stop.”

Holmes was the last name of the stake president in their religious community.

Adam said that he had been texting Vallow the morning he was shot and killed, but he didn’t find out until two days later that his brother-in-law had died. The last message he sent to Vallow was marked as read on July 11, 2019, hours after police responded to the deadly shooting.

Daybell, during cross-examination, seemed to attempt to create separation between her relationship with Adam. One of her final questions included if Adam had heard or seen her or Alex conspire to kill Vallow. Adam said no.

On redirect, Adam said he told his family he believed Alex and Daybell had planned to kill Vallow. At one point, he even said there was “no doubt in my mind."
Charles said he was "going to" go to Holmes, but I don't know that he ever did. That's what I'm wondering.

Adam talked to Lori and the family about Lori's crazy religious ideas, and that's what cut him off from his family. Charles and Adam were planning the intervention, but I haven't seen specifically where they let anyone else in on the plan. I wish they would have asked more questions, like what did Adam tell Alex was the reason for his visit?
 
Day 4 - 10th April 2025
Morning


Lori Vallow Daybell is on trial in Maricopa County, Arizona, on one charge of conspiracy to commit the murder of Charles Vallow, her fourth husband. Nate Eaton is live in the courtroom with updates. Please excuse any typos. Times listed below are in Mountain Standard Time, so they are an hour behind Idaho. (Arizona does not observe Daylight Saving Time.) The most recent updates are at the top.

12:11 p.m. We are recessing for lunch. Back at 1:30 p.m.

12:10 p.m. During the March girl’s weekend, Treena asks if there was just one time when Lori asked the women to cast out Ned. That’s what Sarena recalls.

12:09 p.m. Sarena says she had never done that in a group setting and had never even heard of it.

12:07 p.m. Sarena says once she started raising questions about the casting and belief, things changed. During the group casting, all the ladies came together and Lori asked for help for her husband because she needed to cast out the evil spirit. She asked to go around the room and everyone take turns casting out to see if they could get rid of the spirit.

12:06 p.m. “Prior to this, I thought zombie was like a Hollywood thing. But she tried to relate the zombie to the evil spirit inside somebody – like her husband,” Sarena says.

12:05 p.m. Treena got the impression that the evil spirit named Ned was now in Charles’ body based on how Lori described it. Sarena heard Lori use the term “zombie.” It stuck out to her “very much.”

12:04 p.m. Treena asks Sarena if she’s someone who questions things. Sarena says she does question things and she was asking a lot of questions to Lori about castings. She also spoke with the other ladies about it.

12:03 p.m. Treena asks if during the girl’s weekend, Lori talked about her husband being possessed. Yes she did. “I recall that she spoke about her husband being possessed by an evil spirit and she named the evil spirit. Ned.”

12:01 p.m. Lori used the term “casting out,” according to Sarena. During the weekend trip, Lori asked everyone to help cast out a spirit from her husband Charles. Sarena has a vague memory of meeting Charles – it was a quick meet as Sarena was leaving Arizona. She thinks they may have met briefly at the airport.

12 noon Treena asks about the girl’s weekend in March 2019. Lori brought up casting. It was a “cleanse” or casting out evil. Sarena has prayed to get rid of evil.

11:59 a.m. Treena asks if Lori ever talked to Sarena about casting. She did. Sarena believes Lori is the person who brought up casting and it was spoken of on more than one occasion.

11:58 a.m. Sarena remembers Lori talking about light and dark levels. “I remember her talking about changing physically and spiritually.”

11:56 a.m. Sarena doesn’t remember if Lori was just talking about her not needing to repent or the group of ladies. Sarena has been interviewed by the police. Once was in April 2021 at Chandler Police Department. During that interview, Treena told officers that Lori said, “We don’t need to repent anymore. We’ve come to that stage.” Sarena: She was trying to get all of us to believe that.”

11:55 a.m. “What I remember is she has a couple of verses in the Bible that she pulled out, read and then said, ‘I believe we don’t need to repent anymore,'” Sarena says. Treena asks if that stood out of her. “Oh yeah. It was shocking. It was very concerning.” It was against her religion.

11:54 a.m. They were all members of the LDS Church. Lori began telling Sarena things that went against the teachings of the LDS Church. Lori told Sarena she no longer needed to repent. Sarena talks about what repentance means.

11:53 a.m. The girl’s weekend was going to be at Zulema’s house. Sarena thinks she met Zulema at the first Preparing a People conference in Arizona. Lori, Melanie Gibb, Zulema, Christina, Nicole and Sarena were all part of the girl’s weekend.

11:52 a.m. Sarena knew Lori was married when she stayed at her house. Sarena had no idea Lori and Chad were having an affair. After Sarena left the house for the weekend, she was invited back to Arizona in March 2019 for a girl’s weekend.

11:50 a.m. Sarena talked to Chad that weekend. She saw him at another Preparing a People conference in February 2019 in Idaho. Sarena contemplated moving to Idaho. She learned Chad lived in Idaho and met with him about moving there. She was house hunting with a realtor in Rexburg.

11:49 a.m. Sarena points out Lori in the courtroom. Sarena remembers Lori and Melanie were at Lori’s house. Chad Daybell was also there. That was the first time Sarena met Chad.

11:48 a.m. Melanie and Jason both offered a place in their home for Sarena to stay. Melanie agreed to pick Sarena up at the airport. After she picked her up, she said that instead of her house, because her whole family was home, they were going to stay at her friend’s house whose family was gone for the weekend. The friend was Lori Vallow. They had never met before.

11:47 a.m. Sarena attended two Preparing a People conference. They helped people with emergency preparedness and preparing for the second coming of Jesus Christ. She attended a conference in Arizona in November 2018. She knew two people – Melanie Gibb from phone conversations and Jason Mow.

11:45 a.m. Sarena lives in Queen Creek, Arizona. She lived in Connecticut in 2018-2019. She moved to Arizona before COVID. Sarena is LDS – raised in the church. She considers herself a spiritual person.

11:44 a.m. Sarena Sharp is the next witness. She is sworn in and takes her seat on the witness stand.

11:42 a.m. Lori has no further questions. Judge asks if the jury has questions. There are none. Adam’s testimony is done.

11:41 a.m. “No doubt in my mind that they killed him,” Adam says. He told his family this. Treena has no other questions. Judge says the last line of questioning from the gun on was beyond the scope, so he is allowing Lori to re-cross on those issues if she wishes. Lori turns around and consults with her advisory attorneys.

11:40 a.m. Adam didn’t know at the time that Alex had a gun and extra ammunition at the house. Since then, Adam says “it seems extreme.” Adam told his family after that he believed Lori and Alex had conspired to kill Charles. “Lori had told people that Charles was no longer living and there was some zombie named Ned living in his body.”

11:39 a.m. Adam was aware his brother had guns and was concerned that he was at Lori’s so early. It seemed odd that Adam would bring a gun that was loaded with extra magazines to the house where JJ was. Lori objects and says this is beyond the scope. Judge overrules.

11:38 a.m. After Adam told Lori her beliefs were not true, that kind of ended their relationship. Treena asks if Adam was the person who was supposed to be with Alex on the 10th until the 11th. “If I would have spent the night with him, yes.” That stood out to Adam because he had made plans with his brother.

11:37 a.m. Treena asks if Adam has talked to his sister since Charles was shot and killed. He says no. He cut off all communication. Prior to that, Lori had told Adam she was becoming a celestial being and other things that were not in line with the LDS faith.

11:36 a.m. “Mr. Cox, did you see or hear or personally witness me conspire with my brother Alex Cox to murder my husband Charles Vallow?” Lori says. Adam says, “No.” Lori, “Thank you. No more questions.”

11:35 a.m. Lori lists all the cities where Adam worked. “And I was in Texas,” She says. “Arizona, Hawaii.” “So would you say we have not been physically close during the last 20 years?” Adam: “Yes, I would say that.”

11:35 a.m. Lori asks how often they communicated. He says sometimes through text messages, calls, etc.

11:33 a.m. The last time they communicated was when they were speaking in the kitchen in 2018. Lori asks if they were eating her green chile chicken enchiladas. He does not remember that. Lori says, “That we made every time we got together for like 10 years?” Adam does not remember.

11:31 a.m. Lori says, “Mr. Cox, how long has it been since we’ve seen each other in person.” He doesn’t know. Lori lists off a bunch of years and he says, “Something like that.” Lori asks Adam if he saw her at Colby’s wedding in 2018. “No, I was not there.” So did you see me sometime that year at my house? “Possibly.”

11:30 a.m. Adam stuck up with Charles and it created a break in the family. They did not talk for a long time after this. They have since started to talk. Treena has no other questions. Now it’s time for Lori to cross.

11:29 a.m. Adam then called his mom and said, “Do you know Charles is dead?” Mom says she did. Adam asked what was going on. His mom said, “You tell me what’s going on!” Adam thought that was really weird. He said that they needed to talk. He and Zac got in the car and went to his mom’s. The conversation did not go well, Adam says, and it created a break in the relationship with his mom.

11:27 a.m. Adam is aware that Lori had called her husband dark. Treena asks about the friend Googling that Charles had been killed by Alex. “I freaked out for a little bit, cried, thought my world was coming apart. Then I got angry a little bit. The first thing I did was call Kay and ask her because she’s the only one I felt safe calling, knowing my family was involved in this. I asked her if she knew Charles was dead and she says she just learned of it too.”

11:25 a.m. Treena asks Adam if he can tell the story of Nephi. “He was a prophet. A humble servant of the Lord and ironic enough, his brothers tried to kill him at one point. He actually ended up going to Jerusalem to get these plates back. He was run off, came back and then went back again because the Lord asked him to. When he did, King Laban, who was actually a wicked king, was laying on the ground drunk in front of them and Nephi was told to kill Laban.” Treena asks, “Who was he told by?” Adam says, “The spirit or God.” Treena: “So God was using a holy spirit to tell him to kill Laban? And did he?” Adam says, “Yes.”

11:24 a.m. Adam knew Alex regularly went shooting. Adam never told anyone in the family about the intervention. Yet Lori told police that she was aware Adam was planning an intervention. “It wasn’t something you told her about?” Treena asks. Adam says, “No.”

11:22 a.m. When Adam was talking with Eric that something doesn’t feel right, Eric said, “What’s his last name?” Eric Googled Charles Vallow and it popped up that he had been killed by his brother-in-law. “Everything, chaos, a knot in my stomach, probably one of the worst feelings I’ve ever felt in my life.”

11:21 a.m. Adam asked his family if anyone had heard from Alex. Nobody had. Adam had kept the intervention a secret from his family – Charles had asked him not to tell anyone. They were worried someone like Alex, Mom, Dad or Summer might try to prevent an intervention.

11:20 a.m. Adam went to see a friend named Eric in Tucson the next day. Zac went with him. Adam told Eric it was very fishy that he had not heard from Charles. “My mind was spinning. I had no clue what was going on.” Adam thinks maybe Charles just wanted to be with JJ but wondered if other things were going on too.

11:19 a.m. Adam and Zac played basketball that night but Holmes was not there. Adam did not learn that Charles had been shot on July 11. Nobody in his family talked to him about it. On July 12, he didn’t hear anything from Lori, Alex or anyone in his family.

11:16 a.m. Adam texted Alex and Alex did not respond. Adam texted Charles at 7:49 a.m. that he was going to play basketball with Zac. “Holmes is always there either playing ball or interviewing people. I will try to catch him to have a conversation with my old friend.” Charles never responded.

11:15 a.m. Adam then texted Charles, “They are planning something.” Everything seemed very suspicious and Alex being at Lori’s house that morning “felt like something was really off.”

11:13 a.m. On July 10, the day before Charles was shot, Adam doesn’t recall talking with him. Adam assumed he and Charles would meet up on July 11. They had nothing planned. On the morning of July 11, Charles texted Adam, “Al is here. At Lori’s.” This was shocking to Adam. He responded, “Really..I wonder why he never called me back.”

11:12 a.m. Charles says he still loves Lori. We see more texts back and forth between Adam and Charles.

11:11 a.m. Adam knew Charles was going to take JJ to school. He mentions having a second recording device to make sure they caught Lori talking. “It seems like Charles was just desperate, and this was a last-ditch effort to shake Lori loose of this spell she was under.”

11:10 a.m. At 1:13 p.m., Charles lets Adam knows his flights are booked. Charles expresses concern that Lori will be highly suspicious. Adam says when Charles tried to serve Lori with divorce papers, she disappeared and nobody knew where she went. Charles was concerned that Lori might take off again. “She was flighty,” Adam says.

11:09 a.m. Another text mentions Zac and Brandon. Zac and Brandon played basketball with Adam and Holmes, the stake president. So Adam was thinking that maybe Brandon could help.

11:08 a.m. In the texts, Adam talks about always being on record “to have proof for Holmes.” Holmes was the stake president.

11:06 a.m. The texts show some back and forth between Charles and Adam about their travel arrangements. At 9:11 a.m. on July 9, Charles messaged Adam wondering how they could all get together without her knowing about the intervention. Adam said he would go see Lori and record her without her knowing.

11:05 a.m. Judge overrules the objection and lets the texts in. We see the text messages appear on the screen. Adam knew Charles had reached out to Lori about the fake email from Chad. He also remembers Charles reaching out to Tammy Daybell.

11:04 a.m. Treena Kay moves to admit text messages from the morning of July 11. Lori objects – saying it’s a report and not an extraction.

11 a.m. We are now streaming video from the courtroom here.

10:59 a.m. Charles had planned to pick up JJ and take him to school. Adam says Charles and JJ were very close.

10:59 a.m. Adam ended up staying at his mom and dad’s house. He did not see Charles or Lori on July 10. His parents picked them up, they went to lunch and then hung out at the house. At the time, Zac was living with Adam’s mom and dad.

10:58 a.m. Adam thought it was very strange and bizarre that Alex was not responding. Alex never texted or called Adam back.

10:57 a.m. Adam reached out to Alex and asked if he could stay with him. Alex said that would be fine. Adam flew into Phoenix on July 10. Adam ended up not staying with Alex. When he landed in Phoenix, it was around lunchtime. Adam texted Adam as soon as he landed. Alex did not respond. That was unusual. Adam tried to call Alex. He did not answer. That was unusual. “At first I was like, he can’t be that busy. He knows I’m coming.”

10:56 a.m. The point of the recording/intervention was to take away Lori’s temple recommend. Charles spoke with Adam about flying him to Arizona to help with the intervention. Charles offered to buy the plane ticket. Lori and his parents lived in Arizona, so did Alex and Summer.

10:55 a.m. Adam spoke with Charles about going to Lori’s and recording her on the phone. Charles and Adam talked about having a family dinner to play for the stake president. There are wards and 4-5 wards are in a stake and then there is a president of the stake, Adam says. It’s someone who is high up in the church.

10:54 a.m. Adam spoke with Charles about having an intervention. “Charles was desperate because nobody in our family would talk to him. I’m sure Lori had told people in our family not to talk to him, so he thought having an intervention would be getting in front of her, recording her, giving it to the stake president, and having him hear the crazy things he was saying.” The intervention was a way to get her back to the mainstream LDS beliefs. Charles asked Adam to help him.

10:53 a.m. Charles thought Lori was going overboard and was attending the temple five times a week. “She was going a little off the wall so he figured that if she got her temple recommend taken away from her, she would come back to normal.”

10:52 a.m. After seeing the emails, Adam believed Lori was having an affair with Chad Daybell. Adam and Charles talked about it. In the courtroom, Lori is taking notes.

10:51 a.m. At the end of June 2019, Adam reviewed an email Charles got about Chad coming to Arizona to write a book about him. Adam knew Charles played minor league baseball. In the email, a person pretending to be Charles asked about writing a book about his career. Adam says Charles was not interested in a book.

10:50 a.m. Adam tried to tell his family about what Lori was saying. One reaction was that Lori was in a delusion and she will come out of it at some point. “They basically cut me off,” Adam says, referring to his family.

10:49 a.m. When asked if he confronted Lori about the beliefs, Adam says, “I just let her say what she wanted to say.” Adam said to Lori, “I don’t know if you’re crazy but what you’re saying is not real.” Lori then stopped talking to Adam.

10:48 a.m. Adam says Lori told him she had more priesthood authority than the priesthood. Treena asks Adam to explain what that means. “In our religion, the men hold the priesthood and she said she was in a state where she’s above that. I didn’t quite understand it but it was very strange.”

10:47 a.m. Treena asks if Adam ever talked to Charles about why he and Lori were having marital problems. He says yes. Treena asks if Lori had beliefs outside of what is accepted by the LDS religion. He says yes. “Lori told me she was in the process of translating from a mortal human being to an immortal human being – a celestial state.” Treena asks if the LDS religion supports that. Adam says he has not heard of that happening on earth.

10:46 a.m. Treena asks if Lori worked prior to marrying Charles. She was a hairstylist. After she married Charles, she didn’t work. Charles worked so Lori could take care of the kids “for the most part.”

10:45 a.m. People in the family were on Charles’ cell phone plan, according to Adam. Isn’t sure about car insurance. Adam says Charles sold insurance. “He was doing something with school teachers and helping them with their situation.” Charles traveled a lot for work.

10:44 a.m. Treena asks what it means to be excommunicated. Adam says it’s when the church takes away certain things from members and you are no longer able to go the temple. Adam says he and Charles texted and talked on the phone.

10:43 a.m. Treena asks if Charles and Alex were close. He says normal brother-in-law, brother type of relationship. Their family often did big events where everyone came together. Adam grew up a member of the LDS Church. He is still a member. Alex was excommunicated twice, Adam says. He isn’t sure of the dates but it was when he was an adult.

10:42 a.m. Treena asks if Alex and Lori were close. “I don’t know if close is the word I would use. Just normal brother-sister relationship,” he responds. “Over the 4-5 years they were closer. They were close for like a year and a half. They became oddly close for a while.”

10:41 a.m. In 2019, Lori and Charles had JJ and Tylee living with them. Treena asks if they always lived in Arizona. Adam says no – they lived in Texas and Hawaii. Treena asks Adam if he was close with his brother Alex “Al.” He says somewhat.

10:40 a.m. Adam’s son Zac lived with Charles and Lori. Charles had two sons from a prior marriage before Lori. They never lived with Lori or Charles but visited, according to Adam.

10:39 a.m. Adam points out that his sister is at the defense table. In July 2019, Lori was married to Charles. He believes they were married over ten years. Adam says after Charles died, Lori married Chad. Lori had Colby and Tylee from a prior marriage before Charles.

10:38 a.m. Adam says Lori and Summer were close. Treena asks how Melanie Boudreaux is related to the family. She is Stacy’s daughter – so Adam’s niece.

10:37 a.m. Adam is a professional pickleball coach. He was a radio morning show host and lived in Wichita. Treena Kay asks Adam where he grew up. Southern California. Adam says he has four siblings: Stacy, Alex, Lori, and Summer.

10:34 a.m. Video from the courtroom will be available in 25 minutes here.

10:36 a.m. Jury is in the courtroom. Treena Kay goes to get the next witness: Adam Cox. Lori’s brother.

10:33 a.m. It appears every single seat in the courtroom is full other than 4-5 on the row directly behind the defense. Those are reserved for family members.

10:31 a.m. We are waiting on the jury. Judge calls Lori, her attorneys and the prosecution to his bench to discuss scheduling for the second trial – the one involving Brandon Boudreaux.

10:30 a.m. Judge asks if anyone has an issue starting at 10 a.m. on Monday and Tuesday. The judge who is normally in this courtroom does not have any hearings. Nobody opposes so we will be starting early on Monday and Tuesday.

10:28 a.m. Judge Beresky is on the bench. Lori just walked in wearing a black business suit. Colby is staring at his mom. She has not looked back and likely does not know he is here.

10:24 a.m. Treena Kay and Det. Nathan Duncan are in the courtroom. Lori’s advisory attorneys are here. Lori has not yet arrived.

10:22 a.m. The judge’s assistant just reminded the audience to not talk and keep things quiet. She asks everyone to turn off their cell phones. Every public seat in the courtroom is full.

10:20 a.m. In the courtroom. Colby Ryan is here in the audience sitting next to Kay Woodcock. This will be the first time Colby sees his mother in person since he testifed in her Idaho trial two years ago. When he walked in the courtroom that day in Idaho, Lori looked over and mouthed, “My baby.”
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See 10.37 a.m. to 11.42 for Adam's testimony.
 
Charles said he was "going to" go to Holmes, but I don't know that he ever did. That's what I'm wondering.

Adam talked to Lori and the family about Lori's crazy religious ideas, and that's what cut him off from his family. Charles and Adam were planning the intervention, but I haven't seen specifically where they let anyone else in on the plan. I wish they would have asked more questions, like what did Adam tell Alex was the reason for his visit?
It seems to me that Adam had a lot of plans but nothing came to fruition. We still don't know how Lori knew they were planning an intervention. Adam or Charles must have told someone who then told Lori. Adam said he regularly plays basketball with Holmes.
 
Bringing this forward.

From the article -

Adam testified he had tried to talk to his family and Daybell about his concerns, but he was cut off. Vallow and Adam started trying to develop a plan for an intervention and possibly record Daybell. The hope, he said, was to take the recording to the leader within their religious community.

“I personally feel she’s too far gone,” said Vallow in a text to Adam. “It’s going to take us going to Holmes, or she won’t ever stop.”

Holmes was the last name of the stake president in their religious community.

Adam said that he had been texting Vallow the morning he was shot and killed, but he didn’t find out until two days later that his brother-in-law had died. The last message he sent to Vallow was marked as read on July 11, 2019, hours after police responded to the deadly shooting.

Daybell, during cross-examination, seemed to attempt to create separation between her relationship with Adam. One of her final questions included if Adam had heard or seen her or Alex conspire to kill Vallow. Adam said no.

On redirect, Adam said he told his family he believed Alex and Daybell had planned to kill Vallow. At one point, he even said there was “no doubt in my mind."
Yes, I recall all that. I'm talking more specifically about the intervention. He tried to talk to them i took it about her nutty ideas and so on but they cut him off and did not listen. So from that there should have been on concern for danger, etc. or Alex to be there. Then it says they started trying to develop a plan. He and Charles. He was asked if he shared the intervention thing with anyone and I am pretty sure he said no.

So we are recalling the same thing but talking slightly different points maybe? I always thought he talked to them or tried to so it all fits, but they kind of defined it a bit more in testimony. I can't quite explain how I always thought he informed the family so was a bit surprised at how not specifically of that, that came after. It all fits and matches though to what I thought through the years. I think it's just that now I am seeing there was no reason to have Alex there, fear of Charles, or an intervention supposedly, to have Alex there or for her family to suggest it. I think Lori helped manufacture fear of him and that she and the kids needed someone to keep them safe. OR for her family to think she should have him there. Of course saying they cut the conversation with Adam short, doesn't mean he didn't say some things to them before they did.

I'm getting to where I am going to forget my original point lol. Plus we were talking whether he talked to the stake president too, and it doesn't say that. I was more on the intervention. The order of these things defined, there''s no clear way she should have known about the intervention is one of my points. Your post even says they started talking that AFTER his family shut him down.
I heard nothing that he ever talked with the stake president either.

Then as we've talked back and forth, another point is there was no real reason for Charles to think he was in danger or would be other than dealing with her tirades perhaps, etc. I'm trying to separate my points here. Not physical danger. Or to have Alex there. No reason for the family even IF Adam told them anything at all to think she was in danger from Charles either. So a few points.

I think on the first one we are talking a lot similar and not arguing but I'm more on how she would have known about any intervention. Did she know Adam and Charles were talking--well there is another one. That was not asked of Adam specifically for instance.

I guess I am more into the specifics right now, I knew the generality before, like Adam tried to talk to the family. And I perhaps shouldn't have put other questions or points in here where mostly I meant intervention from the start, plus whether Adam ever talked to the stake president.

Heck I think Charles even tried to talk to her family and was shut out so I mean surely they and Lori knew some things. Charles had tried to make Lori get a mental eval through the police department, she knew that. She had claimed he stole her purse. I mean yes, they both knew what the other thought, threatened, etc.

I don't think I am clarifying very well but there's no doubt much wasn't secret between the two of them for sure in their fights and probably to family either or that Charles thought Lori off her rocker. I'm just trying to dial into specifics.

Specifically overall the intervention. He said he told no one.
 
It seems to me that Adam had a lot of plans but nothing came to fruition. We still don't know how Lori knew they were planning an intervention. Adam or Charles must have told someone who then told Lori. Adam said he regularly plays basketball with Holmes.
I've read his testimony twice and watched it once and there's a lot of loose ends, but nothing definitive as to whether he actually talked to Holmes or anyone else about the intervention plan. I wish they could verify Lori knew about it ahead of time. I think that would make the prosecution's case stronger. But so far, I can only say that in my mind, Lori, Chad and Alex only knew that Charles and Adam were trying to rain on their parade, but no specifics as to their plan.
 
Charles said he was "going to" go to Holmes, but I don't know that he ever did. That's what I'm wondering.

Adam talked to Lori and the family about Lori's crazy religious ideas, and that's what cut him off from his family. Charles and Adam were planning the intervention, but I haven't seen specifically where they let anyone else in on the plan. I wish they would have asked more questions, like what did Adam tell Alex was the reason for his visit?
Same here. I never heard once that he actually ever talked to him. I'm not saying he might not have, but we never heard that he did and he was not at basketball on that particular occasion.

I too am more dialing into the intervention. They all knew about her crazy beliefs and that the two were having issues.
 
I have watched quite a few of Adam's vlogs with his uncle in the past, though not so much recently. I have noticed on more than one occasion that Adam is better about talking about the big picture than the small details. I tend to be the same way and I often need to go back and be more specific, too.
 
It seems to me that Adam had a lot of plans but nothing came to fruition. We still don't know how Lori knew they were planning an intervention. Adam or Charles must have told someone who then told Lori. Adam said he regularly plays basketball with Holmes.
Lol that has been my point is the intervention. I think we have been kind of talking at cross purposes or something. It is NOT clear how she knew.

Adam did I think when he was there but he lived in Kansas so he couldn't play with Holmes unless in Phoenix.
 
I've read his testimony twice and watched it once and there's a lot of loose ends, but nothing definitive as to whether he actually talked to Holmes or anyone else about the intervention plan. I wish they could verify Lori knew about it ahead of time. I think that would make the prosecution's case stronger. But so far, I can only say that in my mind, Lori, Chad and Alex only knew that Charles and Adam were trying to rain on their parade, but no specifics as to their plan.
LOL. You and i are totally on the same page as to what we are wondering here, and it was not said in testimony. I am going to let you clarify it since you are better at it than I and shorter. We know everyone knew she had these ideas and that the two were having problems, her family knew, etc. but it was not what I was wondering.

I too have seen no evidence nor heard him say he ever talked to the stake president.
 
Lol that has been my point is the intervention. I think we have been kind of talking at cross purposes or something. It is NOT clear how she knew.

Adam did I think when he was there but he lived in Kansas so he couldn't play with Holmes unless in Phoenix.
I'm still not clear on WHEN she knew, either. I tend to believe it was once she got a hold of Charles' phone the day he was killed. Before he was killed? After he was killed? Did Charles tell someone else the plan, who then told Lori? Why did Alex tell Adam he could stay at his house and then ghost him when Adam got to town? As a juror, I would be asking a LOT more questions.
 
This is one of those cases where if you don't keep up, you can get lost QUICKLY. I've followed it since it hit this board and I'm still learning something new, especially with each trial. I've already been wondering what we'll learn at Brandon's trial!

So far with this trial, the fact that Charles had a date the night before shocked me! I don't think we ever knew that before, did we? If it was shared in the past, it must have been while I was taking a nap. :hiding:
 
I'm still not clear on WHEN she knew, either. I tend to believe it was once she got a hold of Charles' phone the day he was killed. Before he was killed? After he was killed? Did Charles tell someone else the plan, who then told Lori? Why did Alex tell Adam he could stay at his house and then ghost him when Adam got to town? As a juror, I would be asking a LOT more questions.
Yeah, they are not asking many questions. I'm surprised by that actually.

I'm satisfied that Lori and Alex were going to kill Charles regardless for the $$ and because he was possessed according to her. The motive WAS the $$ in my opinion BUT she also wanted to be with Chad and Charles had found out and he was also telling her she was this or that and he was going to do this and that. Nate had text messages between Lori and Charles. I mean clearly, they were at odds. Everyone knew they were. We know it.

Even though I'm satisfied they would have done this regardless, I want to know IF she knew and HOW she knew. I want the finer details now.

Adam coming to town and Charles too may have raised an alarm with her. We do know Alex would have likely definitely told her.

I have considered too that Zach was told by Adam and maybe Zach said something to the grandparents. I've considered Lori had access to Charles' email if they emailed at all. Just speculation.

I guess overall it doesn't matter. I'm just surprised we didn't hear more on such. Keeping it simple for the jury maybe.
 
This is one of those cases where if you don't keep up, you can get lost QUICKLY. I've followed it since it hit this board and I'm still learning something new, especially with each trial. I've already been wondering what we'll learn at Brandon's trial!

So far with this trial, the fact that Charles had a date the night before shocked me! I don't think we ever knew that before, did we? If it was shared in the past, it must have been while I was taking a nap. :hiding:
I see people in Nate's chat for instance who are brand new to the case and one can tell how lost they are. I too followed from day one. It is hard to retain everything too isn't it? I've had the main players straight for a very long time and all the key side players and most extended family members but like mention Serena to me and I wouldn't have necessarily known immediately who she was. I mean I've got Lori's family straight, Zulema straight, both Mels, David, that Alex married Z and Ian married Mel P and all that stuff lol. I know all the victims. I knew who Joe was. Who Annie is. And so on and so on.

I haven't heard a lot new but a nugget here and there and so on but then I get to wondering if I didnt hear a hint of it back when and forgot. I don't think another case I ever followed compares to this one for all the stuff that was dumped, the cases and murders and so on. All the different jurisdictions even! And areas they did each thing and so on.

I don't recall ever knowing Charles had a date but then I get to wondering if I didn't hear a blip about it somewhere back when. With all the things that were on YT and all things absorbed, document dumps, I am not sure but I don't recall ever knowing it.

It has been something to take in from the start, and for those just seeing it now with trial on, wow, if they want to see all we've taken in, watched, read and followed since day one, they better have weeks on end lol. Imo.
 
Yes, I recall all that. I'm talking more specifically about the intervention. He tried to talk to them i took it about her nutty ideas and so on but they cut him off and did not listen. So from that there should have been on concern for danger, etc. or Alex to be there. Then it says they started trying to develop a plan. He and Charles. He was asked if he shared the intervention thing with anyone and I am pretty sure he said no.

So we are recalling the same thing but talking slightly different points maybe? I always thought he talked to them or tried to so it all fits, but they kind of defined it a bit more in testimony. I can't quite explain how I always thought he informed the family so was a bit surprised at how not specifically of that, that came after. It all fits and matches though to what I thought through the years. I think it's just that now I am seeing there was no reason to have Alex there, fear of Charles, or an intervention supposedly, to have Alex there or for her family to suggest it. I think Lori helped manufacture fear of him and that she and the kids needed someone to keep them safe. OR for her family to think she should have him there. Of course saying they cut the conversation with Adam short, doesn't mean he didn't say some things to them before they did.

I'm getting to where I am going to forget my original point lol. Plus we were talking whether he talked to the stake president too, and it doesn't say that. I was more on the intervention. The order of these things defined, there''s no clear way she should have known about the intervention is one of my points. Your post even says they started talking that AFTER his family shut him down.
I heard nothing that he ever talked with the stake president either.

Then as we've talked back and forth, another point is there was no real reason for Charles to think he was in danger or would be other than dealing with her tirades perhaps, etc. I'm trying to separate my points here. Not physical danger. Or to have Alex there. No reason for the family even IF Adam told them anything at all to think she was in danger from Charles either. So a few points.

I think on the first one we are talking a lot similar and not arguing but I'm more on how she would have known about any intervention. Did she know Adam and Charles were talking--well there is another one. That was not asked of Adam specifically for instance.

I guess I am more into the specifics right now, I knew the generality before, like Adam tried to talk to the family. And I perhaps shouldn't have put other questions or points in here where mostly I meant intervention from the start, plus whether Adam ever talked to the stake president.

Heck I think Charles even tried to talk to her family and was shut out so I mean surely they and Lori knew some things. Charles had tried to make Lori get a mental eval through the police department, she knew that. She had claimed he stole her purse. I mean yes, they both knew what the other thought, threatened, etc.

I don't think I am clarifying very well but there's no doubt much wasn't secret between the two of them for sure in their fights and probably to family either or that Charles thought Lori off her rocker. I'm just trying to dial into specifics.

Specifically overall the intervention. He said he told no one.
When Charles saw Alex was there he texted Adam and suspected they were up to something. And he was right to be suspicious, as his death proved. The whole point of the trial is actualy about this. Was Alex there to specifically kill Charles or just to protect Tylee and Lori.

The intervention - clearly he told someone as that is the only way Lori could have known, in order to have Alex there for their protection.
 
When Charles saw Alex was there he texted Adam and suspected they were up to something. And he was right to be suspicious, as his death proved. The whole point of the trial is actualy about this. Was Alex there to specifically kill Charles or just to protect Tylee and Lori.

The intervention - clearly he told someone as that is the only way Lori could have known, in order to have Alex there for their protection.
Yeah, I know he texted Adam and know Alex was there, imo, to ambush and kill Charles. They do need to get this across to the jury also no doubt.

Protect two kids who he probably killed is laughable but again jury doesn't know that.

The intervention that is largely what I am trying to figure out. Maybe the point should be when did Lori first supposedly know about this? And do we know. I'm not sure I know that answer. If she only knew after Charles was dead, then it darned well could have come from his phone. If she knew prior, and that is part of why this ambush was planned, then someone leaked or something.

I mean it is one thing to be asked did you tell anyone about the intervention and say no, but he wasn't asked could someone have overheard you or gotten a hold of your phone, etc. They just really didn't go into it much.
 

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