CT Stepmom abuses 32 year old stepson

Connecticut mom allegedly held gaunt stepson captive for decades before he lit fire to escape ‘inhumane’ conditions: ‘Something out of a horror movie’

“I wanted my freedom,” the stepson said, explaining that he was held captive since he was about 11 years old, according to police.

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[GrandmaBear]

Here's the video of the Fire Department attending.

Not going to watch but so that's her??

 

[Tresir]

So it was bio dad. My God. I honestly want to be on it but I know when I shouldn't go into more or I have tried to learn, as far as details. It made me think of that NY case but I needed to be sure it was bio dad first. So they were BOTH likely abusing him, that's how that case was. The absolute depravity of some. I'd actually like to see her wicked face but not going there either. I know I am at my end with such, almost did not come back in.

You are the best at answering and helping. It bothers me I cant think of the name of that case but it was not COVERED either NEAR what it should have been like they tried to shut it down, reminds me of Gilgo but entirely different cases but both the NYC area.... NOTHING ALIKE but if there are places in our country politics dominate (starting to in in all places), NYC would be one. DC another of course. DAd was a cop and mom couldn't get any help no matter HOW she tried. On a better day, I can find the name. Not now. But that's not this case anyhow.

So the daughters knew, dad knew and likely participated or had no problem with it. Even without reading up on this one, that seems like a totally reasonable conclusion. Those of you that have followed would know more.

Oh I saw the last post first. I just saw her face above, think your post. I have to look back. I do need to avoid going too far into it. Right now anyhow. I'm glad though the thread got up and all and moved.

I care about all cases, just sometimes can't do them and try to realize when. Does anyone else go through that? Maybe it's just me but sometimes it is just too much after taking in too much and especially certain ones.

It's why I go to cooking although an interest too and lately some over the top fiction thing on Netflix. Rare with that, or I just take a break. It is like watching news all of the time. I see that in my mom even if it is not crime. She watches too much. Used to do that yrs ago myself.

Anyhow, trying not to wander so will stop. Or get negative. Yet I care about all cases so it can be a struggle.

Some just bury their heads in the sand and stay uninvolved, in their own bubble. I get it, that's what's been done to us all over years and years. And it is also what let it go this far in some things.

Okay, NOW I know I need to stop.

I'm only going to do posts and surface on this for now. IF I continue doing that. I've been hitting a point for awhile I think, and life and injury don't help. But a week or so again hearing Charles call in Daybell sent me about over... I try to recognize the signs...

Does it ever get to you? All the bad sh*t? Just asking everyone, not just you.

Not really, i think because I dont go onto too many cases.

 

[Takeitfromme]

Okayyyy so what about dad then? So dad was there through most of this...? What I mean is was it dad that just died last year was the husband? Trust me, not sure why I am even looking but trust me, I cannot read on it right now. I can maybe do comments but reading it will probably send me over. Just can't.

Do you know of the NY one, they weren't adults but it was a bio dad and stepmom? It didn't ever get the press it should have either, by a long shot. I just take in too many, I believe we all need to to call attn but it gets to be a lot. I HOPE you watch for that too, recognizing when it is too much. He was a cop, not a big one but the bio mom was calling and messaging online and trying to fight in court that the boys were being abused and I think she messaged the president even. Talk about getting upset with the system, I have little good to say about the NYC area and their system.

I guess I should ask first if the hub who died was the bio dad?

I want to help give this case talk and attn, why I came in and know it is one that matters to you. they all do, here too. I just have to stop at times.

Yes his dad was the husband that died just last year. Though he isn't here to speak for himself he obviously was well aware or involved in the treatment of his son

 

[GrandmaBear]

Not really, i think because I dont go onto too many cases.

I actually see you in more lately than I ever did. Amount of time probably changes for all of us. For me it took awhile but it can take a toll. I try to recognize it now but I still don't always. Think since I feel I am close to that again, just like to let all know if they don't realize that it can. Still i struggle to recognize it as my thing is following crime so the instinct is to keep doing it.

Anyhow, I just don't feel ready for this one. I care of course but it would add to the toll. I do truly believe however people need to take notice and say something and hoping I will get more into it when life and cases settle a bit.

 

[GrandmaBear]

Yes his dad was the husband that died just last year. Though he isn't here to speak for himself he obviously was well aware or involved in the treatment of his son

*&!%&!

I figured that was probably a given but wanted to confirm. Thank you for telling me.