PA THE BOY IN THE BOX: WM, 4-6, found in Philadelphia, PA - 25 February 1957 *JOSEPH ZARELLI*

America's Unknown Child

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So was he given away because he was born out of wedlock? In those days that was a big issue for many and makes Ms story even more intriguing.
IDK. When was he sold?. As the situation seems to be. They looked normal. Not in the dregs of society. Desperate people. Even the most Desperate won't give up their children. But just from their pictures seem so unassuming.
 
So was he given away because he was born out of wedlock? In those days that was a big issue for many and makes Ms story even more intriguing.
In all of the reports that I have seen, Joseph was severely disabled. It is my understanding that Cynthia later had additional children. Two boys died on their day of birth. Cynthia may have had some really bad genes.
 

JANUARY 13, 2023
BY MICHAEL TANENBAUM
PhillyVoice Staff

Amonth after Philadelphia police identified the child at the center of the city's most notorious cold case, Joseph Augustus Zarelli now has a new gravestone bearing his name at the Ivy Hill Cemetery.

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On Friday, to mark what would have been Zarelli's 70th birthday, an interfaith service was held at the Ivy Hill Cemetery to dedicate the new headstone. People who attended brought a wreath, birthday balloons, cards, flowers and toys.

The service was organized by the Philadelphia-based Vidocq Society, a group of retired detectives who have continued to work on the cold case. The new monument and engravings were provided by DeChristopher Memorials, with help from Ivy Hill Cemetery.

Zarelli originally was buried in July 1957 in a potter's field near Mechanicsville and Dunks Ferry roads in Northeast Philly. His first headstone read, "Heavenly Father, Bless This Unknown Boy." When his body was first exhumed in 1998, the gravesite was moved to Ivy Hill Cemetery with a new headstone that said, "America's Unknown Child," and had a carving of a lamb on it.

The new headstone features a photo of Zarelli at the top with his full name and the text of the poem "Little Angels" engraved below:

When God calls little children to dwell with Him above,
We mortals sometimes question the wisdom of His love.
For no heartache compares with the death of one small child
Who does so much to make our world seem wonderful and mild.
Perhaps God tires of calling the aged to His fold,
So he picks a rosebud before it can grow old.
God knows how much we need them, and so He takes but a few
To make the land of Heaven more beautiful to view.
Believing this is difficult still somehow we must try,
The saddest word mankind knows will always be "Goodbye."
So when a child departs, we who are left behind
Must realize God loves children ... Angels are hard to find.
 
We have had some incorrect information. Cynthia Pashkow was married to Augustus Zarelli, but she was not the boy's mother. Mary Elizabeth Abel was the mother of The Boy in the Box. She was never married to Zarelli. She eventually married someone else. Her married name was Mary Elizabeth Abel Plunkett.

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The ‘Boy in the Box”s birth parents have finally been identified – The Morning Call​

Rory MurphyJanuary 20, 2023

Betsy, as they were all called, liked to skate and dance, and raved about Italian boys stylus-snapping Frank Sinatra records at their home in Tioga, Philadelphia, after World War II.

“She was a real beauty,” a close family member recalled this week.

Gus was a concrete and stone mason, a hard worker in a proud family of Italian immigrants in West Philly.

Augustus J. “Gus” Zarelli and Mary Elizabeth “Betsy” Abel gave birth in the spring of 1952, and the boy’s short, painful life became one of Philadelphia’s greatest unsolved mysteries. Investigators now know, based on interviews with members of both families and sources close to the investigation, that police believe Zarelli and Abel are the parents of Joseph Augustus Zarelli, a child known for 65 years only as “The Boy.” in the box” is known. ”

Betsy was 21 years old when Joseph was born on January 13, 1953. The close relative, who asked not to be identified, said she could have put him up for adoption because she had done that before with a daughter. The Inquirer could not confirm if anyone adopted Joseph.

A police spokesman declined to comment on The Inquirer’s findings.

Also read: Philadelphia police have identified the 1957 Boy in the Box murder victim. The results will be announced on Thursday - The Morning Call

Abel graduated from Murrell Dobbins Career & Technical Education High School in North Philly in 1949 and, like most graduates at the time, was quickly promoted to adulthood. A few years after planning proms, she was dealing with a pregnancy. A daughter was born in 1950 and immediately put up for adoption. The relative believes that a Catholic organization took care of it.

Abel later became a cashier at the Goldman Theater, one of the large movie theaters in Center City on 15th Street. John J. Plunkett, a man her obituary said she would later marry, was her manager.

The relative does not remember her pregnancy at the time, but expressed doubts that she was involved in Joseph’s abuse or death.

“Betsy? No way in the world,” said the relative. “There was no cruelty, meanness, or cruelty that swelled in her heart and soul.”
Joseph’s body was discovered in a bassinet in a weedy lot in Fox Chase, far from West Philly, in February 1957. Investigators said the child died of blunt force trauma and no one came forward to identify him for six decades.

On December 8, 2022, police first released the boy’s name, citing DNA evidence from both the paternal and maternal sides, along with a birth certificate that had slightly misspelled the father’s name. Police said at a news conference that the boy was around 61 and Market said they had “suspicions” about his final days but little else, and while they didn’t publicly name a parent, the Zarelli surname is uncommon in Philadelphia.

The media, together with internet detectives and genealogists, quickly discovered the small, close-knit family in the region. Gus Zarelli’s four children have not responded to repeated requests for comment, but on Thursday Dan Bush, a West Chester attorney representing them, said in a statement to The Inquirer that both Gus and his family are “in all sorts of… social media, implying the most horrific things, all of which are unfounded.”

“Each of his children has extraordinary sympathy for the death of this little boy and is appalled by the events that are being discussed,” Bush said in the statement. “However, until recently, they had never heard of it. They were never shown anything that would connect their father or any member of their family.”

The Inquirer confirmed that Gus Zarelli’s niece submitted DNA matching Joseph’s. Previously, Abel’s relatives had uploaded their DNA for genealogical research. Misty Gillis, a forensic genetic genealogist and cold case contact at Identifinders International, created Betsy’s extended family tree.

Finally, the police knocked on their doors to speak to their relatives. They asked about the five Abel sisters, including Betsy. Who was pregnant when? What connection, if any, did you have with West Philly?
Betsy’s close relative, who declined to be identified, said the Abel family only learned the investigation was into the boy in the box 48 hours before the press conference.

“I was stunned,” said the relative. “I remembered the story. We used to get utility bills with his face on them and asked if anyone recognized him.”

According to Bush, the Zarellis have received “sparse” information from police and “are continuing to investigate whether Augustus John Zarelli is the father of this boy.”

“There has been no credible claim by anyone, including the Philadelphia Police Department, that their father knew of the birth of this child or had anything to do with the life of this child, and certainly nothing remotely suggesting that he knew of it.” knew or had anything to do with harm being done to that child,” the attorney said.

While police said Joseph lived at the 61st and Market areas of West Philly, records show that the Zarelli family lived at the 6300 block of Callowhill Street.

It remains unclear for the time being how or where Zarelli met Abel, whether he knew that she was pregnant and had a child. Zarelli was five years older than Abel and in 1950 still lived with his family in the Callowhill Street house. Abel’s relative said one of her sisters may have lived in West Philadelphia. Abel too, the relative said, on the second floor of a walk-in apartment with Plunkett and their daughter, who was born in December 1956. The couple later moved to Ruffner Street in Nicetown. Plunkett drove a cab. They had four children together, one of whom died in childbirth.

Gus Zarelli married in 1958 and left Callowhill Street. The family business grew into a lucrative construction and real estate business in Chester County, where most of his children still reside. By all accounts, he was loved by his children, respected by his peers, and showed signs of grace in difficult times.

When Zarelli died in 2014 at the age of 87, Legacy.com noted his “strength and character.”

“The world has lost one good soul,” wrote one mourner.

On January 13, some of Joseph’s paternal relatives attended a rededication of his headstone at Ivy Hill Cemetery. Some of them try to research the case themselves.

“Our family was taken by surprise,” said a family member at the grave. “We want to honor him by finding out his full story. We want to give the story a real ending.”

Abel’s relatives said she later worked at the Crown Can Company and other warehouses on Erie Avenue. She died as Mary E. “Betsy” Plunkett in 1991 after “a prolonged illness,” according to her obituary. Her relative said she died of lung cancer, probably from exposure to asbestos.

“She was friendly and calm,” said the relative.

The death of Joseph A. Zarelli, who was 4 years old, remains an active homicide investigation.
 
We have had some incorrect information. Cynthia Pashkow was married to Augustus Zarelli, but she was not the boy's mother. Mary Elizabeth Abel was the mother of The Boy in the Box. She was never married to Zarelli. She eventually married someone else. Her married name was Mary Elizabeth Abel Plunkett.

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I definitely see a strong resemblance between Mary and Joseph.
 
Does anyone know the street address of merjorie’s fort Meyer, Florida home? Did she own or rent? If she owned the home, what name did she use on the deed?
 

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