IL TIMMOTHY PITZEN: Missing from Aurora, IL - 12 May 2011 - Age 6

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Timmothy's photo is shown age-progressed to 13 years. He is missing from Aurora, Illinois, but was last seen at a water park in Wisconsin Dells, Wisconsin. Timmothy was last known to be in the company of his mother who has since been found deceased in Rockford, Illinois. Timmothy may go by the nickname Tim or Timmy.
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Timmothy lived with his parents, James Pitzen and Amy Joan Marie Fry-Pitzen, in Aurora, Illinois at the time of his disappearance; he is their only child.

Without telling anyone of her plans, Amy removed him from his kindergarten class at Greenman Elementary School on the morning of May 11, 2011. After checking him out of school, she drove to an auto repair shop and dropped off her blue 2004 Ford Expedition SUV at 10:00 a.m. One of the repair shop employees drove Amy and Timmothy to the Brookfield Zoo, and at 3:00 p.m. she came to pick up her repaired vehicle and drove with Timmothy to the KeyLime Cove Resort in Gurnee, Illinois, where they spent the night.

Meanwhile, James had reported his wife and son missing after he went to pick up Timmothy from kindergarten and found out his mother had taken him. He called her cellular phone numerous times but got no answer. Photos of Amy and her car are posted with this case summary.

On May 12, Amy and Timmothy drove to the Kalahari Resort in Wisconsin Dells, Wisconsin. The following morning at 10:00 a.m., security camera footage showed them waiting in line to check out.

At 1:30 p.m., Amy made several cellular phone calls to her loved ones to say she and Timmothy were fine and not in trouble. Timmothy could be heard in the background and sounded normal, saying only that he was hungry. This was the last time anyone saw or heard from the child.

At 7:25 p.m., Amy was sighted at a Family Dollar store in Winnebago, Illinois, where she purchased stationery. This time she was alone. She went to the nearby Sullivan's Foods at 8:00 p.m., then checked into the Rockford Inn in Rockford, Illinois between 11:15 and 11:30 p.m.

Sometime that night or the next morning, she took her own life by slashing her wrists and neck; she had also taken an overdose of antihistamines. She was 43 years old. The inn's employees found her body at 12:30 p.m. the next day, May 14.

Amy left a note and two letters in the mail (one to her mother and one to a friend) saying Timmothy was fine and with people who cared about him, but she didn't name those people. One of her notes said no one would ever find him. Her cellular phone was missing.

Other items were also missing, including Timmothy's Spiderman backpack, his toys and clothes, the clothes Amy was wearing when she checked out of the Kalahari Resort, a tube of Crest toothpaste and an iPass transponder.

Authorities initally believed Amy had in fact given Timmothy to other people to care for, in part because his car seat was missing. However, the car seat turned up in Timmothy's grandmother's possession in Wooster, Ohio; she had had it since a week before Timmothy disappeared. As the days passed without any indication of the child's whereabouts, police became increasingly concerned for his safety.

When they examined Amy's SUV, they found traces of Timmothy's blood in the backseat. However, they couldn't tell how long the stains had been there and one of the boy's relatives said he had gotten a bloody nose in the vehicle about twelve to eighteen months before his disappearance. The knife Amy used to commit suicide had only her own blood on it.

Amy's SUV was "visibly dirty" and had soil, tall grass and weeds stuck to the undercarriage when it was located after her death. Forensic testing on the plant and sediment materials on the car indicated it stopped for a time on a gravel area just off an asphalt road that had at one time been treated with glass road-making beads.

The vehicle backed into a grassy meadow or field which contained Queen Anne's lace and black mustard plants and would have been nearly treeless; some oak or birch trees were in the general area but not in the direct place where the car stopped. There was possibly a pond or small stream close by. There were no indications that the land was cultivated as either a lawn or for growing crops.

Investigators think the meadow is probably in Lee County or Whiteside County in northwestern Illinois, but they are also considering Carroll, Ogle, Stephenson and Winnebago Counties.

Investigators believe Amy may have been planning Timmothy's disappearance for months. In February and Marcy 2011, she took two unexplained trips to the area he would later disappear from. She had an email account opened under her maiden name in 2007, and kept it a secret from her husband, but the account didn't contain anything useful to the investigation.

James stated he was baffled by his wife's suicide and Timmothy's disappearance, and had no idea where his son could be. He and Amy's mother both stated Amy loved Timmothy and they didn't believe she would have harmed him. Amy had suffered from depression and had reportedly left home before for extended time periods.

All of the child's family members have all been cooperative with the investigation and none of them have been named as suspects in Timmothy's disappearance.

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By WBBM Newsradio Staff
27 minutes ago
(WBBM NEWSRADIO) — Aurora Police released an updated image of a missing teen, who disappeared 13 years ago.
The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children released a new age progression image of Timmothy Pitzen on Friday. Saturday marks 13 years since Timmothy, now 19 years old, went missing.

Timmothy went missing when he was 6 years old. Police say his mother, Amy Pitzen, picked him up from school on May 11, 2011 and they never returned to their home in Aurora.

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I don't believe he is alive although I sure hope I'm wrong. Well, I do only if he's been somewhere safe and happy. Sadly doubt it though.
 

Nicholas McEntyre
Published May 30, 2024, 6:27 a.m. ET

Family and friends of missing Illinois boy Timmothy Pitzen believe he is alive in a religious community with no access to the outside world or the internet, and possibly unaware of who he is.

Linda Pitzen, the boy’s paternal grandmother, has come up with the theory that her daughter-in-law, Amy Fry-Pitzen, 43, gave Timmothy away to Mormons in May 2011 — just days before killing herself, leaving only a short, cryptic suicide note behind.

In the note, Fry-Pitzen reassured her family that Timmothy was safe and had been placed in the care of others who “love” him, but warned them that he would never be found.

Linda Pitzen, after “torturing” herself trying to decipher the note, along with her family, is convinced her grandson is still alive.

“I think she wanted Timm to be raised Mormon,” Linda Pitzen told the US Sun. “The rest of us aren’t Mormon and I think this was her way of making sure he was after she’d gone.”

“She never pushed it on anyone apart from Jim. But he was reluctant and I think her church may have been pushing her a little, I don’t know.

“But she went to a Mormon church. She wasn’t raised that way, she was a convert — and that was before Jim had met her.”

<snip>

Hannah Soukup, the boy’s former classmate, suspected Timmothy was given to people his mother instructed to keep away from the world.

“I believe she dropped him off somewhere — I don’t know if it was in a religious area, or something like that — but I think she dropped him off and gave him to people she knew would keep him safe and hidden,” Soukup told the outlet on the 13th anniversary of his disappearance.

“Whatever Amy did, she did a good job of hiding him,” Soukup added. “I think she made it clear that either his identity had to be changed or that he had to stay away from the internet so he’d never know he was missing.”

Linda Pitzen agrees with Soukup’s theory, claiming Amy possibly gave her son to a commune.

“I read that suicide note, and if you read that note and you know her, I would guess she probably gave somebody to live in a compound,” she said. “I have to hope that’s true because it’d be a lot better option for me to deal with, as opposed to what the other options are.”

<snip>

As Timmothy’s family continues to wish for his return, they are also hoping new technology can play a key role in figuring out the mysterious disappearance.

Investigators found dirt and grass under Amy’s car which they analyzed and determined was from northern Illinois in a location suspected to have been visited by the mother before she drove off alone and killed herself.

Soukup thinks advances in technology can pinpoint the location it came from, potentially helping figure out where Amy went before her death, and where Timmothy is.
 

Nicholas McEntyre
Published May 30, 2024, 6:27 a.m. ET

Family and friends of missing Illinois boy Timmothy Pitzen believe he is alive in a religious community with no access to the outside world or the internet, and possibly unaware of who he is.

Linda Pitzen, the boy’s paternal grandmother, has come up with the theory that her daughter-in-law, Amy Fry-Pitzen, 43, gave Timmothy away to Mormons in May 2011 — just days before killing herself, leaving only a short, cryptic suicide note behind.

In the note, Fry-Pitzen reassured her family that Timmothy was safe and had been placed in the care of others who “love” him, but warned them that he would never be found.

Linda Pitzen, after “torturing” herself trying to decipher the note, along with her family, is convinced her grandson is still alive.

“I think she wanted Timm to be raised Mormon,” Linda Pitzen told the US Sun. “The rest of us aren’t Mormon and I think this was her way of making sure he was after she’d gone.”

“She never pushed it on anyone apart from Jim. But he was reluctant and I think her church may have been pushing her a little, I don’t know.

“But she went to a Mormon church. She wasn’t raised that way, she was a convert — and that was before Jim had met her.”

<snip>

Hannah Soukup, the boy’s former classmate, suspected Timmothy was given to people his mother instructed to keep away from the world.

“I believe she dropped him off somewhere — I don’t know if it was in a religious area, or something like that — but I think she dropped him off and gave him to people she knew would keep him safe and hidden,” Soukup told the outlet on the 13th anniversary of his disappearance.

“Whatever Amy did, she did a good job of hiding him,” Soukup added. “I think she made it clear that either his identity had to be changed or that he had to stay away from the internet so he’d never know he was missing.”

Linda Pitzen agrees with Soukup’s theory, claiming Amy possibly gave her son to a commune.

“I read that suicide note, and if you read that note and you know her, I would guess she probably gave somebody to live in a compound,” she said. “I have to hope that’s true because it’d be a lot better option for me to deal with, as opposed to what the other options are.”

<snip>

As Timmothy’s family continues to wish for his return, they are also hoping new technology can play a key role in figuring out the mysterious disappearance.

Investigators found dirt and grass under Amy’s car which they analyzed and determined was from northern Illinois in a location suspected to have been visited by the mother before she drove off alone and killed herself.

Soukup thinks advances in technology can pinpoint the location it came from, potentially helping figure out where Amy went before her death, and where Timmothy is.
Hmmm. Amish would make more sense and why would they get involved in such trouble? It would make more sense as the last place she was seen was in WI in the Dells wasn't it? I am thinking the right case aren't I? You'd think she'd head to Utah or AZ or another more common LDS area than WI. Not saying there arent' any LDS elsewhere but not all that common in WI.

Maybe they have reason to believe such but maybe they just want to believe such versus the alternative.

Not saying the Dells either is Amish but there are areas not far from there that are.

But sounds like she was LDS and not Amish. If true, that gives me a few new thoughts here. Women who try to divorce or take children with them in LDS have real trouble...
 
The worst thing would be never having answers.

Personally I think it's extremely likely he is dead and has been since that time but of course there's no way to know that and loved ones can never know unless and until he is found, whether passed or alive.

I mean internet did exist then and I guess it's possible she found someone to leave him with to go alone with silence for the rest of their lives but I think it highly unlikely.

Not really new comments sadly, I've probably said them before over the many years of this case and lack of answers.

The fact she killed herself to me says he was gone too, more than likely. Why she did that later and separately I can only say maybe intentionally to leave these huge questions and get at someone, OR just because what she did to him would not work for her. Perhaps he drowned for instance. And perhaps she can swim. Or again, her car then would have been found near where they both died and she didn't want someone having answers...

Again, none of these are probably new comments by me but this case only comes up so often sadly. I don't think he's alive but I'd love to be wrong, as I'm sure even more so his loved ones would like that to be the case too.

This is a stand alone post in response to no one.
 

My nephew disappeared into thin air 14 years ago. Tim if you're reading this, please try to remember​

‘You will never find him.’

Those were the ominous parting words of Timmothy Pitzen’s mother, Amy Fry-Pitzen, before she took her own life in a Rockford, Illinois motel room, with razor blade cuts to her wrists and an overdose of allergy medication.

Amy’s self-inflicted demise came at the culmination of a three-day road trip with her six-year-old son Timmothy, whom she’d taken out of elementary school early on May 11, 2011, to visit zoos and waterparks all over the state without telling the boy’s father.


And true to her sinister promise, almost 14 years later, Timmothy has still not been found.

His devastated relatives cling to the hope that he's alive and they'll one day find him, united in their belief that Amy would’ve never her son.

But leads in the case remain scarce. Without any answers, his family is left with only theories as to where Amy may have taken him.

‘It’s kind of unfathomable that you can just go missing and nobody ever sees you again,’ Timmothy’s aunt, Jen West, told DailyMail.com.

‘I’ve never allowed myself to believe that we’re never going to find him, even though we may not.

‘I believe he’s okay and out there living somewhere. He probably doesn’t even know who he really is.

‘But he’s an adult now and I’ve always thought that maybe something would happen, maybe a memory would pop up and start a chain reaction in his mind to help him realize [...] and I still think that’s the most likely way we’ll get him back.’


‘I believe he’s out there somewhere, and he’s at the age now, depending on the situation, where he might start questioning things.’


Both Jen West and Linda Pitzen believe Amy’s religious beliefs may hold a clue as to what happened to the boy.

They believe Tim was handed over to a family within the church and may possibly be being held in a remote Mormon commune with limited access to the outside world.

Jen believes Tim was first taken to Texas and now possibly resides within one of the numerous Mormon communities south of the border in Mexico, which would account for the lack of credible sightings of Tim over the years.

‘Amy was the only Mormon in her family and our family, and I think she wanted Tim to be raised within the church,’ said Jen.

‘It’s the only thing I can think of that is plausible, where else can you go where nobody recognizes you and you can stay hidden?

‘We think he was told something happened to his parents and ‘you’re going to live with us now’, something along those lines.

‘I think he’s in Mexico, within one of these communities that protects their own.

‘I don’t have proof, of course but it’s just a gut feeling.’


If he is still alive, Tim would be 20 years old.

Above all, Jen said she hopes her nephew is somewhere where he is happy, and safe, and loved.

Her confidence that Tim is alive far outweighs her confidence he will be found.

‘He’s fully grown now and he can do what he wants, if he does one day realize who he is,’ shared Jen.

‘We only know six-year-old Tim and not 20-year-old Tim. There would be so many things to adjust to and catch up on, which would be just wonderful.

‘I hope he can come back to us, so we can all be a big happy family again.’


Jen shared that the toll of losing his son continues to weigh heavily on Jim, who only speaks to the media sparingly to avoid reopening old emotional wounds.

Jim released a message of hope, addressed to Tim, on the anniversary of his disappearance last year.

‘Dear Timmothy, the years apart have been hard, I am so looking forward for us to be reunited,’ he wrote.

‘There is so much of your young life I have not been able to be a part of while you have been missing. The future is bright, and I look forward to spending time with you, and getting to know my son again.

‘Till I see you again. Love, Dad.’
 

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