NE TYLER GOODRICH: Missing from Lincoln, NE - 3 Nov 2023 - Age 35

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Missing Lincoln man has ‘gone off the grid’, sheriff’s office says​

After leaving his home in southwest Lincoln on Friday, there has been no sign of 35-year-old Tyler Goodrich.

Deputies from the Lancaster County Sheriff’s Office were initially called to the Yankee Hill neighborhood Friday at 7:45 p.m. for a verbal disagreement between Goodrich and his husband Marshall Vogel. However, upon arrival, Goodrich had already left, and since no criminal activity was found, LSO left the area.

Vogel then called LSO at 9:35 p.m. the following day to report Goodrich as missing. Goodrich is 6′2, 180 pounds and was last seen wearing running shorts, a sweatshirt that zips, gray running shoes, and a Garmin watch, with his phone and wallet in hand.

“The reason we are so concerned is because he has gone off the grid,” said Chief Deputy Benjamin Houchin. “We do not have any information. His phone is not on and we know that he has not had any financials.”

LSO said the family has cooperated in the investigation and even organized a search party with some friends on Sunday. People close to Goodrich said his phone last pinged near Southwest 10th and West Van Dorn streets. On Sunday, they searched that area for Goodrich, but didn’t find anything.


MEDIA - TYLER GOODRICH: Missing from Lincoln, NE - 3 Nov 2023 - Age 35
 
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Podcast transcript available here:

I’ve been listening to the podcast and I’m not done with it yet, but so far the husband’s story makes sense to me. I’ve done similar by leaving overnight when I was having extremely heated arguments with my ex just before our divorce. The husband says that’s what caused him to delay calling in to LE to report that Tyler was missing. He thought he was going to come back.
 
I’ve been listening to the podcast and I’m not done with it yet, but so far the husband’s story makes sense to me. I’ve done similar by leaving overnight when I was having extremely heated arguments with my ex just before our divorce. The husband says that’s what caused him to delay calling in to LE to report that Tyler was missing. He thought he was going to come back.
Me too. And since he's a runner to begin with, it makes sense that is how he removes himself for reflection.
 
I’ve been listening to the podcast and I’m not done with it yet, but so far the husband’s story makes sense to me. I’ve done similar by leaving overnight when I was having extremely heated arguments with my ex just before our divorce. The husband says that’s what caused him to delay calling in to LE to report that Tyler was missing. He thought he was going to come back.
Me too. And since he's a runner to begin with, it makes sense that is how he removes himself for reflection.
I have not watched the podcast and boy do I get leaving to get away from problems. Done it many, many times in my marriage. BUT I had no kids at home, the cops weren't called, and so on. There was never (even though now divorced) any threats about divorce and so on or custody and such. I'd just leave and generally head down to our camper at a permanent site so I could still work, etc. (worked from home) or get out and grab a motel room, etc.

Here, there are kids. Here there is a pushed divorce and custody battle. Here he never came home. Here he wouldn't let them search or talk to the kids. A right? Of course it is and should be. Here the unsaid things by Tyler'\s family instinct says they suspect the spouse.

On top of it they are older and adopted kids. Not judging that but am saying the glue would not be the same AND we have seen many a case for years now where adoption is for profit.

DID the spouse work at all or only Tyler?

From all impressions I get he's the stay at home parent and his only source of income is Tyler or the kids and he wants out.

I get this may be right and may be wrong and not enough facts but Tyler has NEVER used a credit card or anything else, he has never been seen as far as we know on any secuirty cam other than their own and that in and of itself is admittedly grainy and no proof it was even him, now we have learned spouse went back yet he did not want to be there when Tyler came home like some domestic abused spouse. Is ANY of that even true?

You TAKE the kids and you stay the HE77 OUT if you are so worried about it. You go back to get things with a COP to be safe. OR you don't GO BACK. He did twice. My thoughts? Once for one reason and the second time for another...

Jmo.

Like I said, I've been there and many of us have but there's too many other things here. And of course it is just speculation, I can't be a high percentage sure but we are crying now of him not knowing how to make Tyler's scrambled eggs for the kids. Doubtful. Someone should remove these children. I mean WTF.

If there was a single other sighting to this day other than their own driveway but there is not.... It doesn't prove guilt but it sure gives doubt. Lots of it.
 
I have not watched the podcast and boy do I get leaving to get away from problems. Done it many, many times in my marriage. BUT I had no kids at home, the cops weren't called, and so on. There was never (even though now divorced) any threats about divorce and so on or custody and such. I'd just leave and generally head down to our camper at a permanent site so I could still work, etc. (worked from home) or get out and grab a motel room, etc.

Here, there are kids. Here there is a pushed divorce and custody battle. Here he never came home. Here he wouldn't let them search or talk to the kids. A right? Of course it is and should be. Here the unsaid things by Tyler'\s family instinct says they suspect the spouse.

On top of it they are older and adopted kids. Not judging that but am saying the glue would not be the same AND we have seen many a case for years now where adoption is for profit.

DID the spouse work at all or only Tyler?

From all impressions I get he's the stay at home parent and his only source of income is Tyler or the kids and he wants out.

I get this may be right and may be wrong and not enough facts but Tyler has NEVER used a credit card or anything else, he has never been seen as far as we know on any secuirty cam other than their own and that in and of itself is admittedly grainy and no proof it was even him, now we have learned spouse went back yet he did not want to be there when Tyler came home like some domestic abused spouse. Is ANY of that even true?

You TAKE the kids and you stay the HE77 OUT if you are so worried about it. You go back to get things with a COP to be safe. OR you don't GO BACK. He did twice. My thoughts? Once for one reason and the second time for another...

Jmo.

Like I said, I've been there and many of us have but there's too many other things here. And of course it is just speculation, I can't be a high percentage sure but we are crying now of him not knowing how to make Tyler's scrambled eggs for the kids. Doubtful. Someone should remove these children. I mean WTF.

If there was a single other sighting to this day other than their own driveway but there is not.... It doesn't prove guilt but it sure gives doubt. Lots of it.
I don’t think I see it the same way you do it all. And I don’t see why they would remove the children if they’re not being abused. Where are they going to go? Some crazy Foster home? There are some great foster parents out there, but then there’s some bad ones, too. Why roll the dice?

After listening to the complete podcast, I think his husband is a drama queen. That’s his personality I guess. But it kind of explains the way he handled some things. His reason for recording one of their arguments made sense to me, but he overdramatized Tyler’s anger. Perhaps the husband had been abused before in the past? And he wanted a divorce and he was afraid that Tyler was going to get overly angry because of a past mistake Tyler made when he was drinking?

That’s how I took it anyway. It’s a good podcast. I hope they find Tyler! I wonder about the theory of Tyler being hit by a car? But certainly there would’ve been some evidence on the road.
 
I don’t think I see it the same way you do it all. And I don’t see why they would remove the children if they’re not being abused. Where are they going to go? Some crazy Foster home? There are some great foster parents out there, but then there’s some bad ones, too. Why roll the dice?

After listening to the complete podcast, I think his husband is a drama queen. That’s his personality I guess. But it kind of explains the way he handled some things. His reason for recording one of their arguments made sense to me, but he overdramatized Tyler’s anger. Perhaps the husband had been abused before in the past? And he wanted a divorce and he was afraid that Tyler was going to get overly angry because of a past mistake Tyler made when he was drinking?

That’s how I took it anyway. It’s a good podcast. I hope they find Tyler! I wonder about the theory of Tyler being hit by a car? But certainly there would’ve been some evidence on the road.
That's nearly exactly how I imagine it happening.
 
I don’t think I see it the same way you do it all. And I don’t see why they would remove the children if they’re not being abused. Where are they going to go? Some crazy Foster home? There are some great foster parents out there, but then there’s some bad ones, too. Why roll the dice?

After listening to the complete podcast, I think his husband is a drama queen. That’s his personality I guess. But it kind of explains the way he handled some things. His reason for recording one of their arguments made sense to me, but he overdramatized Tyler’s anger. Perhaps the husband had been abused before in the past? And he wanted a divorce and he was afraid that Tyler was going to get overly angry because of a past mistake Tyler made when he was drinking?

That’s how I took it anyway. It’s a good podcast. I hope they find Tyler! I wonder about the theory of Tyler being hit by a car? But certainly there would’ve been some evidence on the road.
Well I have to admit I have not watched the podcast and did not intend to either. Maybe I will and get to it, unsure. I'm just looking at what is known and the fact he has never been seen on a single other security cam, used his phone, a debit card or anything and the way LE looked at him and he wouldn't continue cooperating. And before anyone says it, I GET protecting self, children, against searches and so on and that it is a right in most cases if no warrant and so on.

People though don't just disappear. He did go back home. The hub I mean, if so worried about abuse and overdramatizing, etc. and again I have not watched the podcast. Imo Tyler went back home too the minute he knew LE was gone. There was a domestic. The cops were called by this spouse. And I think I know what we would be saying in almost any other case with this and more cirucmstances if it was say a female that left, but went back.

Can it be proven? Probably not. It is just my opinion and where I lean in this case. Am I speculating and accusing someone who may be innocent as we do in following crimes and cases? Maybe so. And I've only mentioned a few of the things here that bring me to it, as I don't have much time, but there's too much.

We all have lived lives and some things are instinct too. And again, may be wrong, may be right. I suck at being smart enough to follow my own instinct in my own life but find I am fairly good at it in cases where they aren't related to me, etc. I said in the recent 15 year old's disappearance that the dad's side had something to do with it, and lol and behold. I don't say that to be right. I just say it in this one too that there are just things and a reason I feel as I do. And I most certainly COULD be wrong, I sure don't have any proof or evidence.

And I admit I have not watched the podcast. I'm used to not always being on the same page as everyone else but it doesn't make me not see what I see nor does it with anyone else, we stick to what we see and feel, unless of course enough reason to change an opinion such as something said or released by LE and so on.

For me, this entire thing smelled from the start. I'd also say never ever thing in most cases families don't know. I did. I KNEW. Not from being told. Before told. And that's another big one to me. Tyler's family is not saying it and imo are clearly told to not say anything, been there too, and I can't speak for them but they are not working WITH the hub nor him with them. I can't speak for them and I may be wrong but again, never underestimate the victim's families gut ;instincts. Tyler may not have shared all, but families know their kid, they know the couple, etc. Some of my thoughts are just reading between the lines and again I may be wrong.

Imo Tyler hung around until he knew the cops were gone. And then he went back. Just as hub did as well.

Anyhow, no idea if right or wrong, haven't watched the podcast and have to go but this just for me has one appearance although I'd say it would help to know the finances, if the kids brought money, if both worked, etc. but I'd bet not. To divorce, you are going to need to be provided for if you don't or have income from being the ones with the kids, etc. and so you'd need to hope you kept them and not the other spouse. And from everything I've heard his family say, Tyler would have fought to keep these kids.

And again if this was a typical female male relationship I think most would be thinking the hub did it. Perhaps I am wrong on that.

If there weren't the video of what "appears" to be Tyler running off, I'd be even 200 percent positive. But I'm around 90 as it stands. Haven't seen the podcast, and sure can't convict on any solid evidence, it I just my opinion. Gotta go.
 
I don’t think I see it the same way you do it all. And I don’t see why they would remove the children if they’re not being abused. Where are they going to go? Some crazy Foster home? There are some great foster parents out there, but then there’s some bad ones, too. Why roll the dice?

After listening to the complete podcast, I think his husband is a drama queen. That’s his personality I guess. But it kind of explains the way he handled some things. His reason for recording one of their arguments made sense to me, but he overdramatized Tyler’s anger. Perhaps the husband had been abused before in the past? And he wanted a divorce and he was afraid that Tyler was going to get overly angry because of a past mistake Tyler made when he was drinking?

That’s how I took it anyway. It’s a good podcast. I hope they find Tyler! I wonder about the theory of Tyler being hit by a car? But certainly there would’ve been some evidence on the road.
The reason for recording the argument makes sense. Like you said, especially for someone who had been in a current/past/or presumed DV situation.

It stood out to me, a LOT, that Tyler's friends attested that Tyler's way of handling conflict was to remove himself from the situation. Particularly since he had had a previous domestic charge. They said that after that, he stopped drinking and changed the way he dealt with conflict. He would leave. It makes sense that maybe he was so overwhelmed (whether with his OWN behavior or frustration with his husband's behavior, I'm not going to take sides in the domestic situation) that he felt he had to remove himself from the situation. So he left, and there is video of him leaving.

Certainly, with the garage camera that saw Tyler leaving, it would have also seen Marshall coming and going. Packing up their youngest son to get away for the night. Returning to ge the laptop and feed the animals. It would either confirm or refute when Marshall had returned with his vehicle and how long he was there.
 
The reason for recording the argument makes sense. Like you said, especially for someone who had been in a current/past/or presumed DV situation.

It stood out to me, a LOT, that Tyler's friends attested that Tyler's way of handling conflict was to remove himself from the situation. Particularly since he had had a previous domestic charge. They said that after that, he stopped drinking and changed the way he dealt with conflict. He would leave. It makes sense that maybe he was so overwhelmed (whether with his OWN behavior or frustration with his husband's behavior, I'm not going to take sides in the domestic situation) that he felt he had to remove himself from the situation. So he left, and there is video of him leaving.

Certainly, with the garage camera that saw Tyler leaving, it would have also seen Marshall coming and going. Packing up their youngest son to get away for the night. Returning to ge the laptop and feed the animals. It would either confirm or refute when Marshall had returned with his vehicle and how long he was there.
Oh, that’s a good point! I didn’t think about the camera picking up hubby as well.
 
I guess I may have to watch it and give it a chance to see if it changes my opinion. Doubtful but who knows. Trying to be fair by I guess doing so.

Won't be tonight though. Home on a back to back. Worked til after 9 and back in by 9. I hate those. So going to catch up with others, etc. instead with the little time I have and will probably be stupid and stay up too late as usual too but be smart not to lol. We will see.
 
I’ve been listening to the podcast and I’m not done with it yet, but so far the husband’s story makes sense to me. I’ve done similar by leaving overnight when I was having extremely heated arguments with my ex just before our divorce. The husband says that’s what caused him to delay calling in to LE to report that Tyler was missing. He thought he was going to come back.
So since I don't do Apple, Spotify, etc. I finally did get into this but is it not a Dateline video? Just sound only, no seeing the people, etc.? I guess I just assumed it was a video and was going to give it a watch.
 
Hmmm while maybe half of it was all people and things I've heard before and it seems I either saw Dateline or they were stringing past things together, second half was well a bit of other that If I knew I didn't recall all of but some of.

I almost quit as I expected a video and it seemed like a rerun of things at first and it wasn't short.I'd have also like to have SEEN it t judge facial expressions.

My opinion has not changed and it perhaps has even been added to.

I always suspected the families were in a rift and that's confirmed. I still suspect the family or most think he did it but they are not going to say that and I understand why.

Interesting that the friend says the vid is definitely Tyler and dad says definitely not and sister is unsure. They said most who have heard the recording say there's nothing that heated in it and so he sure went out on a limb he shouldn't have talking abuse and such. Since no proof. I have my own theories of his reason for recording.

Not once LE says were they ever called there and then he calls over a not even that heated of an argument. Pretty clear why he is dong it for. Imo. It is so clear the lines loved ones are talking around too.

Since the pic is grainy and terrible and he never saw him leave, just heard the garage door open, it can't be known what if anything he may have taken. Wallet and cell I'm sure are based on they are missing plus it "looks" like a cell is in his hand lit up or whatever. They think anyhow. So for some thinking anything else, he could have grabbed a weapon or something I guess as far as suiciding. Not impossible but who knows. His cards have never been used though, and LE actually says that as for buying something or staying somewhere, etc.

Marshall's stuff just doesn't fit still. Calling 911 and even reporting him missing when he had no way to know he was not cooling his heels makes little sense to me. It wasn't heated from what people say who heard it and yet he calls 911 which then WOULD have probably sent Tyler off or out.

There's a lot more but not going to take the time right now.

I did listen to it however.

It would end up a very long one if I said all I see. Not from only this podcast because while some things added to it, there are so many other things including motive imo. BUT, I'm certainly not 100 percent but have a very strong lean.

I could make the argument all of it was planned and setting up.

They have three acres, not a lot but not a city small lot either. How many security cams do they have? I have three and I'd like more like six or more and a trail cam or two as well, just have never had the time, etc. to do so and the main thing is that every direction is covered and more. I don't have just a single or grainy poor one either.

I don't know if I buy the DV either. There isn't enough to judge. And LE said they'd never been called before so interesting just this night they were over something not even heated. Hearing the recording would be interesting. Did Marshall say you pushed me and I'm calling 911? And what did Tyler then say...

Of course the kid is upstairs, the other gone.

I'm going to stop because I don't have it in me right now. However, I can lay out a pretty likely scenario and I believe LE knows more too. Of course they want to keep cooperation and say otherwise. Very typical.

It's also interesting that Tyler is the one who is the cook yet as far as I've ever heard he is the only one that works. What exactly did Marshall do all day? Kids in school, one working, one even driving, etc. I believe. Not that it matters but so you work all week, come home and have to cook. Maybe not have to but seems a big imbalance here. Of course Marshall could work and I just don't know it.

My state has things in divorce and custody now that are pretty much routine and probably the law. And only a couple of things will get you full custody and not 50/50. ONE is DV if can be proven.

Not going to go into it tonight but that's what I'm seeing. And I think if divorce was filed, there would have been a major custody fight. However, someone's already working on that or was. BUT then he had or got quite what he wanted and there was NO LE history at all with the two.

Anyhow, there are several things but that would be one subject. No time right now.

I guess I differ still and none of us know what happened to him and no one does. Well unless someone does, meaning a hit and run, murder, etc.

And I get that.

You know, I don't know what I think as far as the grainy video but it sure is NOT clear and it reminds me of how people don't agree in Delphi about who Bridge Guy is either. I'm not saying it isn't Tyler and I always with that leaned towards it was just because hub had called the cops for it appears no good reason. That's up for debate and we can't know. BUT his own father doesn't see it. And although I kind of leaned that it was, but who can know, his own father thinking that has to carry some real weight with me.

Not going to go further in right now. But I can see this as planned...

However, I just differ, and anyone could be right and none of us know for sure. I hope they find him one day.
 
So since I don't do Apple, Spotify, etc. I finally did get into this but is it not a Dateline video? Just sound only, no seeing the people, etc.? I guess I just assumed it was a video and was going to give it a watch.
I think that they were originally shows on the TV station? But I’m not sure. I haven’t had mainstream television since 2015. I like to listen to the podcasts while driving.
 
I think that they were originally shows on the TV station? But I’m not sure. I haven’t had mainstream television since 2015. I like to listen to the podcasts while driving.
I adjusted to it but am more used to videos. Even if I'm doing something and listening, I will then come back and rewind if I want to see the person saying something.

Yeah, I good part of it I'd heard before like from his dad and more in their own voice, etc. and pretty sure I saw such on video, could be wrong.

Like I said I adjusted but did feel something was missing and I'd particularly have liked to have seen the hub in person on video but I don't even know if that exists. I assume it does since it is a Dateline thing.

I just can't shake what I think in this one but also am prepared to fully be wrong. It just points that way to me for many a reason. BUT I also recognize there are other possibilities. Finding him would be a start but boy, no sign of him whatsoever... Other than for all we know ONE capture of what MAY be him at their own home and not another thing.
 

‘Tunes for Tyler’ raises funds, awareness as search for Tyler Goodrich continues​

As the sun set on Glacial Till Vineyard Thursday night, dozens of Tyler Goodrich’s loved ones gathered to make sure the light doesn’t go out on the search.

“We just thought this would be a good way to kind of renew that energy to get everybody back together and hopefully some hyper-focus back on the situation,” Rachel Barth, a friend of Goodrich said.

Goodrich disappeared after leaving his home last November. His family and friends exhausted all local leads in their tireless search for him, so they’ve expanded their efforts to the national stage.

That requires more money and time, Barth said, which was the reason behind the “Tunes for Tyler” concert at Glacial Till Vineyard. All proceeds went to helping the search.

It was also a moment of joy, celebrating with a toast and the live band, “The Day Traders.”

“Just enjoy music, which is something he loved, you know, time with friends community,” Barth said.

Over wine and barbecue, those closest to Goodrich remembered the difference his presence made.

“He was just all about, ‘How are you? How was your day?’ Danielle Reynolds, his co-worker, said. “And I miss my friend in that aspect.”

They looked back, fondly, but they also looked ahead to a search they say will continue for as long as it takes.

“Can’t stop, won’t stop,” Nate Wolfgang, Goodrich’s co-worker, said. “Not until we get closure.”
 

‘It eats away at you’: One year later, and still no trace of Tyler Goodrich​

Family and friends of Tyler Goodrich reflected this last week on a year of sorrow and hope as the search continues for the missing man.

“You still look for him everywhere you go,” said Lonnie Goodrich, Tyler’s father. “It’s hard to feel the emptiness, and it’s hard to think about tomorrow, next week.”


One year later, the Lancaster County Sheriff’s Office is no closer to finding Goodrich.

Chief Deputy Ben Houchin said there’s simply nothing to go off of.

Goodrich’s phone went dead almost as soon as he left the garage, and his bank account hasn’t been touched.

The Goodrich family hired a private investigator, Erik Rezabeck with Bring ‘Em Home Nebraska, to look into the case.

“Usually, in a missing persons case or any case, you have some sort of idea of which way to head right away,” Rezabek said. “In Tyler’s case, we basically have a grainy video of what we think is him leaving the house, and then we have nothing. There’s not really any motives, there’s not really any evidence that points to foul play, but something had to have happened.”


Vogel, who shares two children with Goodrich, said it’s been difficult to navigate everything in the past year.

“This is just something you would never imagine to happen or have to go through,” he said. “There’s just no book or no, ‘Do this this day’, or when you’re feeling like you can’t get out of bed, do this and it’ll help.”

Vogel said it’s the little moments when he really feels Goodrich’s absence.

On a recent day, Vogel was cooking dinner when their sons started wrestling and the dogs began barking.

“It was just, it was a wild mess is what it was,” he said. “And I just thought, ‘He’s missing this. He’s missing this beautiful moment.'”


Amanda Meyer, one of Goodrich’s childhood friends, said there’s been a void at birthdays, get-togethers and other events.

“It’s hard to remain hopeful when it’s been so long, and it’s still kind of a surreal experience because we don’t have any answers,” she said. “Your best friend is just gone.”

And Rachel Barth, another of Goodrich’s friends, said the lack of movement in the case is a tough pill to swallow.

“We know no more today than we did a year ago,” Barth said. “And that is a really, really hard thing for me to cope with.”


But that’s not to say there’s a lack of tips.

Rezabek has looked into a few within the past several weeks.

“Somebody did log into his Snapchat about 10 weeks ago, so we were feverishly trying to work that out,” he said. “The problem with this is there’s no proof of a crime.”

Rezabek said law enforcement has struggled to get the data from Snapchat.


But there were also two suspicious $1 bills found at businesses here in Lincoln. There is a message on them that says someone knows where Tyler Goodrich is.

“We did a huge investigation on that and found out that individual is not connected and is not involved in any way, shape or form,” Houchin said. “We’ve also had some information that some juveniles were responsible. We did find out who those juveniles were and were able to disprove that, too. So everything has led into a wall.”

Lonnie Goodrich remains adamant that his son would have never just left; family meant too much to him.

So Lonnie has come to the conclusion that Tyler is no longer alive.

“My heart is his heart, and my soul is his soul,” he said. “And I know that’s he’s not just out playing games somewhere living a good life.”

He said he has made his peace with the idea.

“If death has happened, I can handle that,” Lonnie Goodrich said. “But not knowing, it’s just something that eats away at you. It eats away at you.”


Rezabek said the immediate area has been adequately searched, so now, the search radius is increasing.

He plans to start looking for clues within 200 to 300 miles away.

And he’s encouraging people to help in whatever way they can.

“Don’t forget about Tyler, don’t forget about his family, don’t forget that we’re not giving up,” Rezabek said.
 
I agree with his dad. He's dead imo. And just my instinct, he has reasons for thinking that more than stated and they think things they've never stated as well. And I'm sure have been advised or suggested to not do. Jmo.
 

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