Oh, my mom wouldn't care if it was her actual friend or family member. This lady's daughter was missing with them, if I have the right person in mind. My mom would definitely do that.
She would go take a lint roller to get friend's shirt to get her hair off her while her friend was in the nursing home. Her friend that she complained about not caring if she had lint on her clothes. So yeah, she should definitely clean up broken glass and possibly check her messages. I would be more shocked if she didn't, chime to think of it. She's ALL about optics.
Well would she just enter someone's home if it was not a close friend or family member and then start doing that? The broken glass I think were "kids", a friend and her bf who went to check when they didn't show up for the water park plan. I THINK.
Yes, I think it was the other girl's mom in the home. I never got any impression though she and the other mom were close enough to figure this was okay. I have KNOWN people that intrusive in life though who don't realize that's basically trespassing if not some implicit okay and friendship with the other person.
I'd have to look back on the case to recall why she was there, maybe notified they didn't show up for the day's plans? Because she also said she didn't know if she'd be gone a day or thought she might be gone a few and if she thought a few, then she'd have no reason to be worried and go over. My guess is it was friends if I recall that were calling her to find the other girl because they hadn't shown up for the planned outing...
If I recall correctly her daughter was closer with this mom (the missing one) than herself/her own mother and preferred to be with them. That's not unusual imo for teenagers And in no way am I suspecting this mom of disappearing the three. I do think though she may have had a bit of jealousy as can also happen when teens prefer someone else's mom and their own is trying to connect and maybe just an interest in what is so interesting about the other mom and her life and messages and she had the chance and a way to explain, well I was worried about my daughter and looking for you had they walked in or came back... I think she is cleaning because it is a way of saying to herself look the mom my daughter prefers needs helping cleaning her home, I am better than that, and the playing the messages was nosiness as well... Again she can explain it to a point if the other mom came home and walked in... Again, I am not suspecting her but I find it very unfortunate such went on and it stands out to this day that she did this and it messed with things.
I am going to guess you like I can identify with the girl preferring to be over there with them. I saw it from both sides, did you with your kids at all? One of mine preferred a friend and I felt the mom was playing my kid quite honestly and it bothered me a lot not out of jealousy but I felt she was influencing my kid where I was trying to parent my child through the high school years. It is like a dad who pays no support or sees them once a year and takes them to Disneyland or something and so they have more clout and plus they are the missed one and the fun one and not the teaching parent. On the OTHER hand, I had the same daughter's friends when they were over telling MY daughter how cool their mom was versus their parents. And I was pretty good imo and yet I remember to this day my daughter telling me this on two different occasions about two different friends and her being puzzled how they could think that I was so chill or cool or whatever the HE77 the lingo is. They are hard years while they try to find their way towards adulthood, I don't care if one is the best parent or the worst.
Anyhow, I think THAT is what was likely going on here. She still had no reason to be in the home or doing such or right to do it. I just want to make it clear I am not suspecting her in the crime and that's not what I am getting at. But her nosiness, need and perhaps insecurity lost possibly valuable evidence.
Since often who I question in a case means I think they are the perp, I am just making it clear I don't think the other mother IS, I just don't like what she did and feel it wrong.
I am trusting also that I recall all this right as it has been some time but I think I do...