I think the state wants her to be declared too incompetent to represent herself because they know it’ll be a waste of time and money having her representing herself. Can you imagine the fiasco? It would be a very long trial of an already long trial ahead.
Yeah, I did not mention that but it sure crossed my mind. It will cause trouble for them, the judge, for the entire case while she throws every bit of b.s. she can pull into it. She IS playing the system imo. Or trying to.
Colby was on last night, I missed the beginning, hit the middle and did not see all. I can only guess the beginning was about this, not sure.
She is relevant for the damage she caused but in the same breath she is becoming very irrelevant to me. THESE cases and THIS trial aren't/isn't over but she's shot her load so to speak and for me I am becoming where she's irrelevant. I know that's not the case for the families, Charles' family etc. and I DO care about justice for the other crimes. But I am struggling to find the words to put it right...
Every single victim deserves their own justice BUT there is security in knowing these two are never getting out, EVER. It does not mean your victim got justice but it does make her more irrelevant imo, her antics, her games. Again I struggle for the words. If LISK only gets convicted of the six charged with and they are sure and families of other girls don't get such where it is highly suspected he murdered them too, but harder to prove, etc., there is still security in knowing they are put away and LISK or Lori or any defendant trying to run the show and play games at this point, well, it's just not even a blip on the radar. It's irritating, it's annoying and it's unfair because Charles' family still deserves justice, and let's not forget possibly Joe which will never get there imo, but Lori and Chad are done for regardless is what I mean and there is security in knowing that. They both already are going to be In prison for LIFE and so she can play her games but not with the same effect imo s if there was not already life sentences.
Yet she thinks she is the show or as if this would change anything. just attn and control. It's important for justice for these other two cases but she just isn't as big of a deal any longer as she would wish, imo. Again I lack the words.
It's like you said with Colby's interview with her. OMG was that a hard listen and watch. And man kudos to him he stuck to his plan and did not let her send him off. And probably prepared for such forever. it's sickening to watch this and will be if she represents self BUT she's a lifer the pressure is off here and overall. She is not the big cheese now that it's known she is off the streets. She should have had the DP but that's water under the bridge. She needs to get justice for what she did to Charles too but again, the pressure at least for rme is off. Of COURSE Charles family feels differently I'm sure BUT guaranteed the are still relieved they both will never walk the streets again. This would have upset me worse before any conviction, with this one I can wait. And she's just no the big deal any longer. She's becoming as she should, irrelevant. Just as others have. They try to rear their heads from prison once in awhile, even SKs but they're just not the big cheese any longer that they hoped to be.
And for the families yes, she is still going to yank the chains and this trial matters too, and it does to me as well, but in the same breath, she is put away for life, Chad is on death row, and they need to become irrelevant to a point. She can be a circus side show but she wants that attention and I'm just not reacting to this in the way she probably hopes people will.
Ain't flying for me. I'm content to wait this one out. Not as easy for the families I'm sure. But she needs to be where her name is never mentioned again, history. The only thing that gets me is that all of the time it will take is she is in county jail rather than prison. We need a nickname for her so she is rarely if ever mentioned again. I have refused throughout to call her Lori Vallow as she married Dumbell and was riding his storm and she does not deserve the last name of Charles.
This does not even have the same attn as it did. And that's not that Charles doesn't deserve justice, it's that we know both are put away for life and beyond even. Each victim deserves their own justice I UNDERSTAND that totally but in the same breath, don't let her games and the b.s. get to you (meaning anyone, family, public, etc.) who I am sure it seems neverending for. who mu
But yes her representing herself would be nothing but a nightmare for the judge, the P and there'd be no D attys. She does have that right though. And the b.s. of it is they will probably have to handle with kid gloves or it will look as though they are coming down on someone who has no atty.
I'm probably all over the place and don't have the words but she is disgusting and she's definitely competent and always has been imo. She's a manipulative, pleasure seeking, money hungry, power hungry, attention seeking evil BIT*H who murders her own children, family, husbands, etc. whether by her hands or at the hands of someone else.
She's fading into irrelevancy for me though and I know the families can't be at that some point though, naturally, because they ALL deal with every single day the same b.s. and Charles' family still deserves justice as does he.
Notice how quiet it's become about Chad. Because it's OVER. He's become irrelevant and not of interest.
In the same breath, Lori DAYBELL needs to feel irrelevant but all is not over there yet but it IS as far as her seeing the light of day ever again.
It's her last hurrah. or attempt for one. I mean why can't she be happy that she has finally found that fame? Notorious fame forever after. You've done it Lolo, gotten the attn and oodles of it you've been seeking for a lifetime.
I hope I made SOME sense here. I hope AZ doesn't let this turn into a side show and enforces the rules. Hopefully there are some. I came down on Boyce a LOT but in the end I have some respect for him. I do think he lost the DP against Lori but what a load he was handed. They all worry so much about appeals these days and their decisions being overturned. And it's so much politics too.
Not really talking to you, I'd hope you know by now maybe started out doing so but now just talking generally and overall.
And I have to finish with something more shallow because if there is one woman I'd say all can say it about and do it to, it is her.. She is an aging irrelevant evil woman who always used her sex appeal (still don't see what most saw in that but whatever) to control and manipulate and imo sabotage other females who did not do her bidding or keep them down or play them. It's always been bad and never fitting for her age imo but her hair has never looked worse than at this hearing. She is never going to ride the Storm again and the only sex she is going to have is with female inmates or like Susan Smith, dumb guards who could attact to such but some don't care, they are just getting some right... Her entire ways in life and what has fueled her is over other than I'm sure she can manipulate maybe ba few in prison where she has not even got to yet but I think she may actually have met more than her match when she finally gets there...
She is a skinny aged trying to maintain a blonde look like she's some twenty years old whose dad paid for a boob job back when, who is going off to prison. She ain't that smart, never has been, neither her nor Chad were. She has no real powers, she's nothing special but has lived never having adulted and with advantages. She will be hated and prey imo. Easy prey in fact from those with real street and prison smarts.
And OH WELL.
I guess I was due for a long one. Taken me more than half the day to even adjust here and have nothing done and in fact laid down for a nap even though I got more sleep than normal.
I have yet to transition.
Canceled an appt. Second time now.
This is such b.s. BUT it needs to be shut down but legally so. I hate to say it but even if you have to let her at least for the moment represent hsrself. All in the system hate that but let her show her colors. Who is it going to win over? It won't me nor I think any of us. I don't think she will win anyone over. I see basically no supporters of hers out there at all, all are on the same page about her in this case imo. There are differences in thinking she's incompetent versus not. I do NOT. Never have.
And you know what, while I am all for cameras, let her do her circus side show and represent self but have no cameras. LOL. Record it for later but don't let her have the attn she is seeking.
I had better stop but it's really just manipulations.
Tammy, JJ, Tylee, Charles. Dead.
Attempt on Bramdon. Others free that shouldn't be imo or dead, The Mels, others, Z, Alex, more.
Possible others, Joe, Alex as far as suspicious deaths considering all the facts in the other cases...
People affected forever would be a far longer list.
Hope I didn't miss anyone but that's what it's about. She's becoming irrelevant to me. And she only ever was because they were not yet convicted or locked up for life.
Yeah this turned into a stupid long one.
I know and have watched all try to process. Annie. Colby. Cousins even. The faimiles. Kay. Larry. Rex and Adam. You name it. I't not that intrerested any longer but do get like Colby needing to. And of course Joe doesn't have justice (if she was part of it), nor Charles' family yet. Brandon either but I do have to say his getting like was it 12 million dollars is something rarely talked about but bothers me... If we want to talk a different thing or bit of a rabbit hole...
There is more here, there always has been. I doubt we will ever see it though.
And a cynical part of me is that is maybe the concern about Lori representing self and what she'd say that people might hear...?
I hate to say it but I saw no basis for them shutting down her right to represent self.. She HAS that right. I am certainly not on her side all know that, but it iIS a RIGHT.