She was 13 years old.
13.
Think about what you were doing when you were 13 years old. I hope whoever is reading this wasn’t having to be exposed to monsters like this perp. And it’s happening more and more lately.
No kidding!
This one is under my skin big time. In fact all these new recent child ones are. Audrii. Eli. ALL of them. Of course all get to me and all of us but I just CANNOT understand these recent ones and where people's heads are.
Maybe it is unfair but this is so not unheard of these days that HOW can these parents be so clueless? Is that unfair? Maybe it is. In Audrii's though, who would let a man like that be sitting and taking your child to school?? There are far more answers needed there. I can't help but wonder here too. She started out with this "we" stuff of taking her to school, almost like she knew what would be thought if saying "he" took her to school... As if she had an instinct or knew BUT she comforted HIM and so on. I just don't know.
The perps in these cases are the bad ones don't get me wrong but man I just am having trouble thinking nothing was seen, sensed and so on. These male molestors and murderers who masquerade as an adult partner to the parent I don't doubt are secretive and cons and chameleons for lack of better words but I still don't get it. And people need to stop thinking being a good person or Christian means putting them in your place in a camper, not judging and letting them take care of your child because he is just a poor soul that needs a little help in life. As in Audrii's and I am giving the nicest possibility with that one because I don't buy that dad at least didn't know more about that guy.
Maybe I need to quit even looking at a new one. Head in sand and ignoring though if all did solves nothing. THESE men, THESE predators need to suffer such consequence and such shame that they are the worst pariah there is. They need to see SUCH consequences given to others that have done such that it actually makes them think twice, KNOWING they are going to suffer severe consequences for their SICK fantasy they act on. But maybe that wouldn't even stop such types.
Audrii's killer SHOULD have been a registered SO. That alone LIES with the judge, the deal makers in that county and the system. That man though had so many warning signs whether dad or grandparents knew or not of all his crimes and so on.
Going to be one heck of a day/week I think. I woke up at 3 with this case on my mind. Watched a few vids on it. Just like in Audrii's, there's a lot of questions here imo. The perps are in jail thank God but that isn't the end of it nor all the answers that need to come.
I was so naive at 13 it wasn't even funny. Thank GOD I never had a monster in my life or midst. I dont' care if kids are "older" now or think they are earlier. The adolescence, hormones and confusion is the same imo. Kids may even think they are adult but they are still NOT. If anything it is worse in that they feel they have to be adult acting sooner when they are still a child. It amkes perfect sense to me this is an age a predator can sense their vulnerability. And younger of course all the way down to very young. Easy pickings as sick as that is, is what they are to these creeps.
It may not be a topic for those that just won't talk the hard stuff but IF he was doing things to her for a long time or making her for that matter, why now kill her? I keep coming back to she was pregnant OR threatened to tell. If I can't say that, then what is the point in talking cases. We have seen that many a time and that's when there is the danger, the molestor CANNOT have eitehr thing as it will get him arrested and his whole thing is ruined. On the other hand i wonder if this was a first or a thing with her just turning 13 BUT it doesn't seem so. The man had sh*t on his phone that he wiped or THOUGHT he did with a factory reset. Thank God not the case they found it.
Can someone clear up for me if LE lied on seeing her on video? From what I've watched supposedly an aunt was told that or some such, some relative, and LE when asked said the video was very poor quality, grainy and could not be confirmed it was her and so on.. It would seem to me (and I didn't see this case at the outset or see all immediately) this was early stuff and came from family or something said to a family member. If someone in LE said it, then perhaps they wanted to see what mom or bf did with it and if they ran with it or some such. I don't know. Mom's whole "we" took her to school doesn't sit well with me. And I just watched it again this morning. It wasn't just one sentence. She continued with it UNTIL she said he did.
I can't help it, mom bothers me too. I think she at least had already been there in her thoughts of he took her to school and she was missing....
Anyhow, I really don't have a point. Just trying to understand and wrap my head around such things where a head can't wrap around or understand perps like this and so on.
Supposedly Audrii's grandpa and dad are going to talk next week. Hmm. That should be interesting and let's take some time, make sure it is edited and looks right. That case too has a whole lot of things that need answers for all as well.
And the three year old sent off for torture and punishment by his mom to a man? Just too much to think of it is so awful. All of these are. There's another one too, Darnell i think?
Maybe monsters will do things but one thing that can be done is HARSH punishment, NO RELEASE and pansy arsed b.s. YET there will be and most will be years before trial and yelling about they aren't getting lobster and all become about the perp, the defendant and the defense.
Anyhow I'd better stop, the edge of daylight is coming and work week starting and I need to get off these thoughts and turn a light on and make coffee and I don't want to.
I wouldn't say there was a break in child cases, there is I am sure always one somewhere we may not hear of, but not too much for a bit and them BAM, all these awful ones. I think it just is a reminder and a shock even though we know, that it doesn't end and never will but the punishment sure can and SO can registering a former SO.
Anyhow, no one has to read this Just needed to work through some of this and let it out. Just my weird way of processing I guess or trying to.
We have a DEAD violated 13 year old here, gone forever. Mom's bf apparently thought she was nothing but an object for him to use, do his sick sh*t or meke her do, and dispose of. I saw one news article that referred to him as her stepfather. I WISH they'd stop doing that new sh*t as well, beeng going on a few years now, maybe more. It's also like when they let us think people are bio parents and we come to find out they are adoptive or foster.
She was NOTHING to him and I doubt mom was either. So on that, I'd like to know how good of a relationship he and mom had. I doubt it was a healthy one. He wasn't interested in mom, not his cup of tea. Yeah, I really need to quit before I go further.
RIP Madeline. Dead at the hands of your mom's monster of a bf. Not FAIR.
