"home" might also be really close to home. It appears that the pic was taken very near the home. I've seen in the comments on a couple of videos that locals have it figured out where the camera is and it's most likely within a block. If they are in an area that often bounces between towers, the location isn't as precise, so "home" might not be at the actual home itself, but very near.
It also could be that it isn't a phone we are seeing, too.
It is funny how specific hub is on the two items he grabbed and took with. Clothing in this one is pretty specific too. Did he wear shorts to work or change when he got home? Does the spouse work or stay home with young kids? Or teenagers? We don't know although maybe some SM group does. Seems he went to work, worked all day and stopped at Costco I'd guess on some family errand. Was he buying diapers or athletic gear for teens? Costco doesn't seem the kind of place you'd just swing off for a loaf of bread or a jug of milk needed for supper or breakfast. Also doesn't seem like you'd do a full on huge haul after work either. And then he headed home most likely after a full on hard day and stop for some necessity and in short order they were arguing... Of course this is all IF he wasn't done with work earlier and then went back to Costco after changing into shorts, etc. I can't recall if it said I just assumed it was after work on the way as he'd worked that day. Long week too probably as this was Friday if he worked all week. Probably long week for spouse to if doesn't work and home with kids all week. Sounds like for a couple who MAY have a DV situation, a ripe time for stressors and problems. I am just working some thoughts out, I could be way off base...
I think any couple who raised children WITHOUT a DV component can relate or take an educated guess of how this evening went or the different expectations and needs. It all isn't easy. And that's without having any other unusual stressors or problems in the relationship or the life of one of them, etc. Just normal routines and work, children, marriage, etc.
None of this answers anything of course, I'm just working out the likely day as I type and think. Both may work but IF there is a breadwinner and a stay at home parent, it would seem to indicate a scenario on this order of a relationship.
Tyler ran. Tyler missed some race and was training for it. Tyler worked. Tyler missed some other thing he had agreed to. Tyler ran errands or at least it seemed with one that night. So Tyler had a life outside the home. And all of this and assuming he had a full time job take a ton of the few available hours we all have for family, sleep, etc. Did the hub have a life outside home? Was he happy hat not only did T have all the normal time taking things going on, he also used off hours to agree to thing for others and do his own thing of running and competing in races? You're finally hitting the weekend and hoping hub has time for you and family but...
I know this may all sound stupid, I get it, but the normal big picture and the mundane things we never know in cases I think are some of the most relevant.
Of course in this "case" it isn't even known if there is a crime and not just an adult willingly missing. BUT are we to believe he just blew off his job, his life, his planned activities...
Well in talking this out I have two theories and one is the same theory with a twist. I started off the day on voluntarily missing until I read with more time and attention the timeline and ping at home thing again and until I talked this other part out here....
I now have a bit more fully formed thoughts... Short of keystone cops and judges who issue warrants for no reason, there was reason the focus was on the home and hub and that a warrant was obtained. It is Nebraska but it IS bigger city, Lincoln. For the MOMENT, that is numero uno for me, I am going to give benefit of doubt to LE and judge signing warrant and assume there is reason and the timeline and ping at home and disagreement the night before add to all that.
Second some type of "fight or argument" was enough that someone called cops whether neighbors, children, hub and I don't take the verbal thing as fact.
Third the timeline and the ping at home do not add up unless confusing info that has not been cleared up is the reason.
Fourth there well could be a DV history and that's not a wild speculation.
Then as I have worked out here, even without problems with children or one or other issues in life, we have a normal stressful week at its end but not at its end as far as Tyler's plans. Add in other normal factors, child care, child issues, dinner, spouse maybe needing some help with kids, etc. and yeah just that we all know how hard this can be on EACH partner.
We know the children are not bio children of both. It IS possible they are of one from a prior relationship and there IS a female mentioned in the early links as to not a lot of detail, just sounding like she may be pointing to Tyler's hub. It really doesn't say, we are left to infer. Is it an ex wife of one? Mother of children? Or is it a mother of one of the men or sister. Who knows...
The man is missing, for THIRTEEN days now. I just now realized that. If he IS missing voluntarily and cares about his job, his children or stepchildren (who knows?), his spouse and what they are being put through at all AND his own family, he'd come back. If he sees all the online scrutiny and is seeing what his hub is put through and that they want to question the children, and he cared, wouldn't he come back unless he is self first always?
So I am revising my voluntarily missing I started off with this morning to leaning more towards where it seemed LE was a few days back. I may revise again and am not SOLD on it. I remain with voluntary or something happened at home. The twist is that hub could know where he is and is part o fit. I find that way more unlikely and a bit of a rabbit hole thought and it is not fully formed and I don't lean towards it but depending on what issues were going on in their lives I could consider it but I won't even give the reasons and they are not fully formed.