Not really sure either way. I'm leaning towards knowing.
well then i take that to mean it is unknown. i sure haven't heard it anywhere else but then i can't watch everything.
they were married. he well could have run the finances but she also could have put her foot down which would be no surprise if he was spending on prostitutes, guns, etc. they were married for more than 25 years. she'd likely have a lot of rights in a "normal" divorce and a good chance at many things. i doubt somehow his business is now worth a thing so that's kind of a moot point. And any savings, etc. that came from his earning she also has her fair right to, etc., why shouldn't she? Are there other architects in the "firm". I didn't get that impression so its as of now probably done for.
little is known but who knows, she may have come into the marriage with money. don't know if she ever worked, etc. probably was married before as Crybaby has a stepson.
it all depends on what she is doing with this divorce. if she is protecting "their" assets or trying to for his sake too, then he'd give her access to all. only though imo if it was his only choice which it pretty much is. hard to say though if they had any other than a whole lot of guns and properties. and probably a comic collection.
my overall belief though is this was not a functional marriage or family in any normal sense. maybe i'm wrong, maybe he came home each day and they all had dinner, went on family outings on the weekends, shopped for groceries, etc. i seriously doubt it though.
she traveled and he did not go along. that's indicative of that she did have access to funds. she also doesn't seem shy. her sister is apparently a doctor. did she do anything and have an education too? she went by Ellerup apparently.
Just wandering thoughts this early a.m. I'm not on the scale with her yet, either negative or positive. there is way too much unknown yet about him, and his family. which i find plenty odd honestly that there isn't by now.
Some things are coming about him and school, etc. but there is little from that point to first marriage to second for instance. We know the year they married, we have no idea to my knowledge when they met and it was a whirlwind thing and they married hardly knowing each other or dated for years. How they met and where.
Did they have a social life, dinners with friends, etc.? An active family life? I'm thinking not.
The killings stopped in this area as far as we know or at least disposals and news. How much did he travel? Was he always home? Did she go with or the family? He hunted in Alaska. When? What times was he in SC? Etc. Was she still doing the comic book thing? Was she someone who just stayed home and played video games and never functioned or cleaned? Depressed? She didn't pretty up the home apparently inside or out.
Did he sit on his computer and do porn and look up Gilgo and she sit on hers and play video games while the daughter never learned to drive? To be fair though, I wouldn't want to drive in NYC or its surrounding area...
Hairs of the wife's present but not of other family members who apparently still lived at home. in what looks like a not huge house.
By the way, how'd they match her hairs? A genealogy thing? By contacting her and asking for DNA? Something or many things pushed this case to arrest it sounds like before they'd have preferred it (I don't believe for a minute we know all) on that... Was she contacted or brought into the grand jury to be questioned? Did they take her aside and say here's the deal...
His brother killed someone drunk, etc. We still don't know how the dad died which I find very, very odd. Not even a whisper. Classmates talk of him being a mommy's boy and having to get home but not a bit about when he lost his father and what from or if sudden or not...
Yes, I am sidetracking and seguewaying all over the place. Because I have a ton of questions and these aren't even the half of them...
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